Lesson Learned about not showing motive

kinoescalator

Went out sarging tonight, we are in a tornado watch so i figured it wouldnt be that good......which was true. I learned a VERY important lesson though.

One of the sets i entered was a 1 set, blonde HB8 31/f. I played a bit with her and learned she was here with her little bro (21/m) and he was shy. I told her i would help him out and said "come on, lets go find him". Now at this point i had no intention on gaming the blonde, heck....just wanted to use her as a pawn.

Once inside we met the brother, who was a great guy but a total AFC. I gave him a real quick lesson on picking up women, all with his sister (the blonde) right there. She couldnt hear most of what i was telling him, but she had the idea. I worked a couple of sets for him, but there really wasnt many sets.

As the night progressed the blonde began giving me some very mild ioi's. At the end of the night she grabs me, hugs me, and kisses me on the cheek and asks me if i will be there tommorow night. She was interested, it was obveous.

I showed NO motive to get with her, yet i was hanging out with her. She saw me helping her brother (Leader of men). She saw me successfully open sets (Pre-selection). She even saw me stop a girl from falling on her (Protector of loved ones).

Lesson learned: If you can figure out how to hang out with a HB at a venue but show no motives u want to get on her, then u will be in!

~kino
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joebazooka · Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 10:35 pm Post subject:

Hey man i dont know if u feel down about this are what but it sounds like you did a good job. You turned what coulda been a bad night into a pretty successful night. It sounds like at the end of the night she was trippin on you even tho you werent interested are didnt hav motive. So you did do something right and i gota keep givin you props on ur spring break adventure. Cool

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