Hey there ppl,I have a woman at work who is cute.She is been Eying me for some time now. Stared asking me where I lived whether I am Married on the second day she joined .

Me being in IT in the organisaton have to solve issues for users.I have ppl under me who go to desk to solve issues.but there r escalations which come to me .

Things went out of had with my junior and I solved the problem.After that moment she's been telling me that 'Now I know whom to call' to which I said''spare me the horror''

two days ago she asked me where my junior is and I looked at my shirt pocket and said not here and we both smiled.

she's been asking me questions all the time.

I have a change in position since yesterday and sit close to her.
She had a problem and asked me .
I said ok but you'll have to treat me for it .to which she smiled and said ok.


To which I said 'need that in writing as I don't trust women for their words'
'----did I do the right thing here???
the she mailed me thing and I was working on some other issue and pretended that I was busy.

SHe asked me if it will take time and i SAID YES as i was busy.did it after some time and mailed her .writing 'treat pending' to which she said 'sure tell me when'

After some time I replied 'Dinner sounds fishy' just ot reconfirm

then I said I'll keep that in my credit account'

to which she replied ''i'll keep that in my debit account''


Need some comments on this .As it'll help me improve .

start screening her

You seem to handled it pretty well. I also don't know why you are waiting to go out with this girl either. She was hook when she saw you and showed interest. So you really didn't need to run any game on her.

Yeah sounds like she's doing a lot of the leg work for the relationship. Just sit back and enjoy it.

~Antithesis

Updating with the current turn of events

she's been asking me a lot of probing questions .Asked me wether I smoke

what my height is

Today before leaving,were chatting up ,where i mentioned u r quite observent with ppl.

she asked Y u ask that.
Said been observing u.U have been obseving a lot of ppl.told her that she was inquiring about my height
been observing quite a bit about other ppl.

Then just talks about the whether and stuff.Then she asked me whether i ahve a GF.to which i told her she's been probing a lot and whats with her and ther told her go figure(think I messed it up,comments needed)

then just normal stuff .


Think I messed up ..


Need comments here.Have been acting like an AFC off lately

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Antithesis wrote:
Yeah sounds like she's doing a lot of the leg work for the relationship. Just sit back and enjoy it.

~Antithesis



Updating with the current turn of events

she's been asking me a lot of probing questions .Asked me wether I smoke

what my height is

Today before leaving,were chatting up ,where i mentioned u r quite observent with ppl.

she asked Y u ask that.
Said been observing u.U have been obseving a lot of ppl.told her that she was inquiring about my height
been observing quite a bit about other ppl.

Then just talks about the whether and stuff.Then she asked me whether i ahve a GF.to which i told her she's been probing a lot and whats with her and ther told her go figure(think I messed it up,comments needed)

then just normal stuff .


Think I messed up ..


Need comments here.Have been acting like an AFC off lately

you better get on that all you need know is comfort and show here that you are a human being which you did on the trust part, it shows you 've been hurt and thats a vulnerability women like that ; you're good where you are

I cringed when I read that.

If she's asking you how tall you are it means she's running out of things to ask you so she can talk to you.

She's inquisitive, apparently you both have established that fact, hell everyone here knows it by now. Quit pointing that out before you really start sounding like a broken record.

What you need to do, is setup a date for you two to go get something to eat the next time you talk to her and quit beating around the bush.

If she doesn't go for it, it either means you blew it, or that she's just flirting with you to make her job easier.

pratik Either ask her out or stop flirting and what have you with her. Because fish only bite the bait for so long before they let go and swim away.

Update:

Went to work today .Asked her how her weekend was and did she go for the movie that she was planning for.She was like no then said had been to the blah blha. had coffee there and stuff.

number closed her.She was like nice phone .I am not giving u my work phone number(She 's got 2 cell phone.one personal the other company provided.)The she was like,what name should I put in.incase u have a person by my name.I was like put ur name.

Latest update:

Went out for bowling with her .She was like lets call other collegues ,I was like I have spoke to ppl but some don't want to come.Then there was this guy who said yes.

On the way she was at the back seat and the guy in the front,but she was like sitting between the two seats and leaning ahead.Were talking and I was pulling her leg constantly.She has Come down from UK after 4 yrs .So was talking to her bout her stay there and stuff.

Reached the venue (I had a different venue and she was like lets go here .I was lkke ok.Want to check some different location as well.

Reached started playing.Started taking pictures of me and the other guy with my phone to which she was like Take mine as well .Held her and took a self photo and did that a couple of times (Kino)Was negging her about her game and was telling her that she was no competition and dshe was liek want to compete with you.

post the game clikced more pics and was negging her about her phone ,clicking more pics holdingher (more Kino) ,did hi 5's ad stuff .

went for dinner post the game and between the conversation this collegue was like didi u taste any Uk guys during ur stay and She was like no.


By the way she is 32 and not married .Asked my age and I was like take a guess and then was like 9125 days go Figure and lets check the brains here.


it was getting late in the night and we moved on .While in the car she mentioned the collegue to sit behind and I she sat besides me.


Droped tehm off midway .She reached home and texted .




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