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autesh
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 Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:45 pm Post subject: Just dont understand woman? |
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ok guys so this is my second post and yet about another girl which i thought was a done deal and nothing so im wondering what im doing wrong. So Im at this small bar with a couple of buddies and some girls we know. We're just having fun and i notice this girl about an 8 just looking my way over and over again. So i decide to go and talk to her but havent been drinking anything cause i was driving so didnt have that extra bit of edge that i normally have. So anyways the night goes on we're having a good time and one of my friends friends comes to me and says that one of our other friends just got kicked out and i was the driver for both. So i'm like "fuck give me a second" because i dont like to live with regret and that gave me that boost i needed and i walked right up to her while shes at the bar with two friends. i was up front and it looked like it was working. I just told her that one of my friends just got kicked out and that i needed to leave but i didnt want to leave until I had a chance to talk to her and right away her friends looked at her smiled and they left her with me. so we started talking she told me that she actually works at that bar but it was her day off and she was out having fun and the time just flew by and my friends outside in the cold just waiting. So I asked her for her number and she said that shes going through a break up and that she still lives with her ex and moving out and that it wouldnt be a good idea for her to get a call there so she asked for my number. So anyways I left and now its been a week and i just spoke with one of the girls i was out with that night who stayed later than we did and the girl i was hitting on went to my friend and talked good things about me to my friend. So I dont know what to do cause we like hanging at that bar and i dont want her to think that im going there to see her again when she hasnt called yet. So what do I do guys?  |
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JSmooth
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| I have a similar problem as well. I met a hired gun last Saturday and managed to # close her. When I called her Monday I could hear some commotion in the background when she told me it wasn't a good time to talk and she'd call me back. She never did. She works at one of my favorite bars as well. I plan on going back to continue to sarge as I normally would. If she is there I won't seek her out, but if she talks to me I don't intend on bringing it up. That would just make the interaction uncomfortable. Instead I just plan on stating how busy I was this past week, and continue with building attraction. |
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PM88ENG
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| Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 6:06 pm Post subject: |
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Walk in like you own the place.
Be preoccupied - go with many friends (the more women the better), and be the center of attention.
Then, whey you casually notice her at the bar, excuse yourself from the group and go talk to her, insert a false time constraint (because you're "here with friends" [DHV]) and then work your magic. |
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