Enigma87
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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:30 am Post subject: jus layin it all out expectin to get slayed |
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well first everyone gets in to pua for their own reasons,
mine personally was confidence i needed to be more mentally strong,
people who are fine at talking to women do it because its fun
people who arnt so good for personal benefit, and confidence something they never have had the nerves to do but now with a little guidance have the confidence to make a change.
some guys want to do it to screw as many girls as possible.
some guys want to get some dates and numbers and have trouble meetin new people.
now if your reasons are any of these or even if you saw it on tv an thought yea thats a laugh at some point you will look at inner game and leanr alot about yourself. you start to build your own personality rather than having a PUA personna for the better.
on my own little voyage i realised that when i saw my ex girlfriend i would do anythin, without being afc for her. Like if a new fella hurt her i would hurt him twice as bad. if she needed a break from home i would take her out or let her crash at mine. that after 2 years of been apart and been different people now, more mature and more independant that i still love her. im not sayin "In Love" with her, just love her because she's a good person who gets my respect and my caring thoughts..
so i told her....AFC! i laid it all out because in my eyes there should be no gaming here... i mean like routines etc.. i conciously thought of body language and that was about it. I didnt get teh response i wanted.
Still though what i have learnt over the last few years of PUA training kept my confidence up, it didnt knock me, im still myself, now im not trying to get her back, im just been MYSELF, im been the PUA the best that i can be, and without anylines or Being cocky funny i think its working, by just showing i care for her, not just want a quick jump, she is taking me more seriously.
she's coming to see me and we're talking more often, she knows im interested so no chance of LJBF, kino and kissing is still up there. and she is innitiating some of this. Her Best friend is happy i told her the truth and their inviting me out with them on nights out, unfortunalty and this was gospel truth i had plans with 2 other women i had met and told them i wouldnt bail... something i would have done before when younger.i love her adn will help but the PUA knows not to give her all the power, which will make for a more fun relationship when we both know that its going to work better.
sounds allot like one-itus, but we both moved on we both have had different people were both more mature and both in a place where this will work.
again sure im goinng get slated but still this is making me happy at the moment.
i dont know when it was exaclt but a while ago i realised i wasnt looking for a full monty fuck close i was looking for a LTR and the game was the tool i needed to get girls to show their quality and gie me the confidence it showed me what i wanted and what i didnt want. |
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