peruso108
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 Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:08 pm Post subject: I'm new but this is my philosophy on confidence. |
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My whole look on it is very simple: YOU ARE THE MAN!
I'm only 18 and compared to all the adults around I may be unexperienced but this isn't so much a experience thing more of an attitude and I find it the best approach to get respect.
The most important thing is to remember is you are the man and everyone else looks up to you. Wether this is true or not keep telling yourself that and eventually it will become true. It may sound sketchy but I know this works.
When I walk into a party at my school (I'm a freshmen at college its a 35,000+ school so I'm not well known) I always come in like I am the man, because when it comes down to it I am. I usually always leave the party with a girl atleast a 7 or better on my hotness scale.
Never doubt yourself because once you do, others will as well. Never ask yourself what others think of you or action but rather how you feel about theirs. Why? Because you are the man and the person who is in charge of approving others.
Once you truely exert this attitude I feel as though you can conquer any girl. This goes beyond girls however because it has many uses in the business world, and workplace.
What do you guys think of my philosophy? I am new to this forum, however I am interested in seeing what you guys think and believe. |
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Summer
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You are absolutely right! If you begin to believe it yourself and use your bodylanguage more and more demonstrating this it WILL eventually come true. At some point it doesn't even really matter what you say is cool or not as 85% of what really say to people is expressed with body language.
I'm a big fan of this approach, but I do think you have to be carefull with it not to get too cocky and too full of yourself. Always respect other people unless they genuinly don't deserve it. You don't want to become the guy that everyone thinks is cool, but from the inside is a total asshole as he really finds himself better and more important then other people. |
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