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 Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 5:26 am Post subject: im in a shitty situtaion need help pleasee!! |
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well im in highschool and ive been dating this girl for 7 months and i liked her alot but we kept fighting so i told her we should go on a break
so the next day i decide to invite a bunch of people to go to the beach and i got very drunk and so did this other girl and we fucked on the beach
the girl i fucked was a virgin she said she didnt ccare she jsut doesnt want my eex finding out
she was very drunk when she said, that so i dont know what she thinks now what the fuck should i do my ex girlfriend is gunna be so upset when she finds out if she does. i need help please |
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Nerd Avenger
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deny everything.
don't tell your friends. i hope its just between you and the girl.
and remember. dead men (girls) tell no tales.) |
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| Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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| well it was at a party at the beach and alot of people were there but like most of the people were older and went to other schools |
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Difference
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| Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 11:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Well after you've done this, how do you feel about your ex? Did you go on the break intending to get back together with her? I vote you don't tell her, BUT, if you really like her, it might be worth telling her only for the reason that having a relationship with a lie is pretty shitty, unless you can deal with it. |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 12:29 am Post subject: |
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| Keep your mouth shut about it, there isn't much more you can do other than that, just hope that it doesn't get out. You've already done it, so you can't take it back. If your really concerned about it, and you still really like your EX, and you think she would understand (probably not) try talking to her about the situation, you'd be surprised how sometimes just being honest will help you. |
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| Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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| ok well now she knows but i told her all we did was hook up and i really dont care about this girl anymore how the fuck do i save my reputation i jsut dont want every girl to think im a dick |
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In my opinion you didn't do anything wrong because you did break up with your girlfriend beforehand.
And if people do start giving you shit about it you could make 'Friends' real life and start shouting "WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!" like Ross, every time somebody brings it up. |
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