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Pyromantic
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 Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 12:24 am Post subject: I'm having the worst day of my life |
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Just an update to all those I know out there, and those I don't. I'm sorry I haven't been posting lately, I've had a lot on my mind, but I've still kept with the game, and most recently I was dating five girls, but managed to find one I really like.
Anyway, just five days ago we were talking about exclusivity. All of a sudden, she cuts contact with me, won't respond to my phone calls, and I even wrote her over myspace (where we met), and saw that she was on just the other night, but she didn't even respond. Needless to say, I'm devastating. I don't know what went wrong. I kind of wonder if she was just playing me like a game, but my heart won't accept that answer. I wish to God I could figure things out right now.
Either way, I'm hoping some of you Don Juans out there can cheer me up. I was really into this girl, and I've been so depressed all day I could barely function at my job.
I know this is probably a weird post to respond to, but I need some cheering up, and some faith instilled back in me. Right now, I feel like no girl is worthy of trust, and I know that, while it's good to be cautious, it's probably not a healthy attitude to distrust all females just because one did this to me. But I can't help it. Especially when it's been those who are closest to me that always end up betraying me like this.
Sorry for the dismal post. I'm a mess.
Pyromantic. |
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96Firebird
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| Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 12:27 am Post subject: |
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| Start seeing the other 4 again. Once you start that up again, you will realize the other one wasn't really that special. |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 12:48 am Post subject: |
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You have to keep in mind that someone that isn't close to you CAN'T betray you like this. So don't be devastated that it happened again, because that's just the way the world works. What you need to do in order to get her to initiate some contact is just freeze her out, don't contact her for at least a couple days and see if she says anything. If not, then you've got two choices; you can either move on because she is toying with you and you had something serious going on, so its past that point where its cute, or you can leave a cyptic message that throws the ball in her court and makes her come to you to figure out what's up. Nothing like, "Call me or we're through." You want something along the lines of, "I see you've been busy lately, we're going out on Friday if you wanna tag along."
Remember man, there are literally hundreds of millions of eligible girls out there and just because you know PU, doesn't mean that it is meant to be with all of them, but you can find one that will fit with a bit of searching. You're still young, don't beat yourself up, there's time. |
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Starbuck
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| Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 1:09 am Post subject: Re: I'm having the worst day of my life |
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| Pyromantic wrote: | Just an update to all those I know out there, and those I don't. I'm sorry I haven't been posting lately, I've had a lot on my mind, but I've still kept with the game, and most recently I was dating five girls, but managed to find one I really like.
Anyway, just five days ago we were talking about exclusivity. All of a sudden, she cuts contact with me, won't respond to my phone calls, and I even wrote her over myspace (where we met), and saw that she was on just the other night, but she didn't even respond. Needless to say, I'm devastating. I don't know what went wrong. I kind of wonder if she was just playing me like a game, but my heart won't accept that answer. I wish to God I could figure things out right now.
Either way, I'm hoping some of you Don Juans out there can cheer me up. I was really into this girl, and I've been so depressed all day I could barely function at my job.
I know this is probably a weird post to respond to, but I need some cheering up, and some faith instilled back in me. Right now, I feel like no girl is worthy of trust, and I know that, while it's good to be cautious, it's probably not a healthy attitude to distrust all females just because one did this to me. But I can't help it. Especially when it's been those who are closest to me that always end up betraying me like this.
Sorry for the dismal post. I'm a mess.
Pyromantic. |
Probably another guy..
Be a man about it and get over it.
Pyro? Don't even think about allowing this one woman to turn you into an AFC. She may have just done you a favor.
Your mental health first, women second. Never forget that. Because ultimately in this world there's only one person you can truly depend on. And that's you. Sad but true.
One other thing, one day the roles will be reversed. Remember how it feels. And remember anything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Immerse yourself in your work, etc.. and forget about her for now. |
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