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Innatist
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 Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 6:34 am Post subject: Im having dinner w/ her fri nite, and she has a BF... |
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The goal of course is to get her back at my place which is near the sushi bar were going to...
She told me she has a BF of 1mo1/2....
Agreed to dinner... IOI?
Is excited....IOI?
Should I play aggressive? If so, how?
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deaney
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Ahh you gotta love the girl with her classical lines.
Dont you worry about it! - just ignore the whole subject, she could be lying to you, then again she could be telling the truth.
But think...... if she was telling the truth, would she be going out for dinner with someone? i doubt it!
It more than likely means you did something wrong in one of the stages.
Does she want to end communication and blank you? if she does then she doesnt have a BF and you played it wrong.
If she is trying to ignore you (freeze out) then good! ignore her back, she has to buy into your life! "your so busy right now doing god knows what, snowboarding lessons, salsa classes, gym, out with friends" that you dont have time for her right now.
If she actually does want to continue chatting with you.. then get reading posts! find out on some boyfriend destroyers, you want to let HER tell you about him, dont you bring it up. When she starts chatting about him dont be bitter - shes looking for a flinch point. Tell her how "nice" he is.. "god he sounds like such a NICE guy" this should put her off him thinking "well hes nice, i dont like nice... i like bad arse!"
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Innatist
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Yes, this sounds all like great stuff. WHat I actually did was cancel on her fri nite. I told her that I totally forgot I was invited to a concert on the front row and could not pass it up.
So we agreed to meet again this week. So the KEY word is NICE GUY, I like that.
Thanks dude!
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mintbase
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A little bit of info I learned the hard way. I gamed a girl with a BF and didn't see the signs that she wanted me to take her away from him. She called me a "stupid boy" recently when we were hanging out together. It was totally out of the blue and I take this to mean I'm "stupid" because I didn't bop her on the head with my club and drag her back to the cave; and "boy" because I was so scared to mess things up between us I acted like a little boy around her.
Act with Moxie, be fearless, risk loosing everything..
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sL!CK
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I don't usually recomend the BF destroyer rutine to everyone, but here's a good one. Just read over it to get familiar with the concept. You don't have to memorize it word-by-word.
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JD in LA
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Personally, I'd avoid taking her to dinner. She may just be looking for a free meal...which could cost you more than you want to pay. And after she eats she may not want to fool around for a few different reasons. She's full. Her breath smells like she just ate. She may have gas. So she may not want to get close to you.
I've had better luck taking girls to lounges, where I'm spending money on drinks instead of food. It's better to sit on a couch, right next to her, instead of across from her with a table in between the two of you. And lounges just have a cool vibe. The music isn't too loud, so you can talk. The amount you spent on a meal at dinner would be the same you spend on drinks. The goal isn't to get her drunk, but to get a couple drinks in her. |
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