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What is a good response to when a girl says that you are cute? i never quite know what the best thing to say and just say thanks


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"you are the 6th person to tell me that today"


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I usually say "I know" in a very full of it way with a hint of machoism. I may also say "Yup cuter than you", in the same tone as well.


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Say "Thank you" and smile.

Thank you is the most confident way to take a compliment.

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Say "Thank you" and smile.

Thank you is the most confident way to take a compliment.
I agree with Chino


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come on thank u is a very lame response!


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:46 pm 
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come on thank u is a very lame response!
its not about what you say, its about how you say it, demonstrate total confidence, you already know that your cute/handsome/hot, you know this becaues you are the source of good emotions (total unshakable confidence), her reaction to you being cute is her reacting to you .


say "thanks" with a friendly smile
and think "your the 6th person to say that to me today"

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come on thank u is a very lame response!
What do you want? A neg? A smartass comment? The first two posters responses were extremely arrogant. Do you want to come off as an arrogant ass or a confident secure man?

You could say something like "I am, aren't I?(insert cocky funny smile) Its only cause im standing next to you.... (pause) fuck! we are both cute!"(she giggles) Then poke someone on the shoulder, wrap your arm around her and say "Look at us, we are just the cutest fuckin pair!!"(notice how i dont ask a question, instead its a statement. if you ask a question it gives the other person an oportunity to be a dick) At that point you can pet her head, rest your head ontop of hers, smack her on the ass... whatever..

There. Happy? :P

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What do you want? A neg? A smartass comment? The first two posters responses were extremely arrogant. Do you want to come off as an arrogant ass or a confident secure man?
Extremely arrogant? lol. As it has been said in so many posts here, delivery is key. Also a little bit of arrogance helps you as it helps display DHV to the girl. Lastly every time I have said either of those to lines the girl has laugh and either responded with a neg, a tease, or continue the conversation. Granted I live in an area where arrogance is abound, but until my responses and delivery does not work any more I will continue to use it.


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I know is probably the best way to respond if you can pull it off in a cocky way. A total AFC response would be "Really?" and such. So try to avoid responses like that. The response really doesn't matter as long as you make it look like you hear it alot. Show her that you have higher value.

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I was thinking that you need to try and turn the statement into a neg to try and be cocky funny,

I thinking something along the lines of 'How many guys have you said that to tonight, if you look around here everyone is cute'

i feel as though thank you is normal standard response though


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I was thinking that you need to try and turn the statement into a neg to try and be cocky funny,

I thinking something along the lines of 'How many guys have you said that to tonight, if you look around here everyone is cute'

i feel as though thank you is normal standard response though
The look around, every1 is cute bit imo would blow that outta the water. Its upping every1 else in the room and making you equal to them.
I disagree with people saying you should be C&F with a responce. Thankyou with a smile will be a 1000 times better in most situations. If it is an honest compliement, you will look so calm and also modest with thankyou but you also maintain your confidence and alpha behavior. Remeber, an alpha is so comfortable with who they are they dont need outside validation or need to put any1 else down to been the highest value male. Its where loads of people go wrong with negs, i always avoide negs unless the target is VERY up themselves and they need to be put in their place. Now, teasing and negs are totally different. Proper negs and insults are also totally different.

Concultion, "thankyou :)" continue conversation. If however its said sarcastically or in a "awww isnt it a cute puppy" then a C&F repsonse may be more fitting, normally along the lines of "you know, if u give me a treat i do some good trics :wink: go fetch me a drink and i'll show u some".

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I was thinking that you need to try and turn the statement into a neg to try and be cocky funny,

I thinking something along the lines of 'How many guys have you said that to tonight, if you look around here everyone is cute'

i feel as though thank you is normal standard response though
Yeah, I always say thank you and smile but I feel that is just a boring standard response as well. I like classy women though and I just don't know how classy women would respond to a real cocky answer.

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As a smart ass comment you mighgt try, "You just noticed?", or something similar .


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What do you want? A neg? A smartass comment? The first two posters responses were extremely arrogant. Do you want to come off as an arrogant ass or a confident secure man?
Extremely arrogant? lol. As it has been said in so many posts here, delivery is key. Also a little bit of arrogance helps you as it helps display DHV to the girl. Lastly every time I have said either of those to lines the girl has laugh and either responded with a neg, a tease, or continue the conversation. Granted I live in an area where arrogance is abound, but until my responses and delivery does not work any more I will continue to use it.
yes. very arrogant.

Look... I think guys get carried away with negs and trying to be overly cocky and funny. Its good to be that guy... but you don't need to have a smart ass response for everything. Sometimes a little humility can go a long ways.

Be cocky and funny all day long, but mix it up a bit. Thank you, is the best way to take a compliment.

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