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brick
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 Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 1:35 am Post subject: I feel like crap! (AFC) FR & questions |
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I go to a community college.
in my class I met the beautiful jewish swedish 9 & very smart.
talked to her all semester but didnt show enough interest til the end.
in the last couple weeks of class i got her number and made plans to meet.
that date went good but just got a hug out of it.
I called her to go to a party with a friend his date and myself.
the party was fun, we were drunk and hungry at 2 am.
my friend and i took her back to her house after droping off the other date.
she cooked us pasta, i helped while my friend slept on the couch.
decided to leave after that go outside and then turned aound knocked on the door, when she opened it back up i said "i think i forgot somehting" and kissed her on the cheek then made futured dinner plans and left.
called her the day after....
me-hello, bla bla bla did you figure out your work schedule for next week?
her- yes, but i dont think we should see eachother.
me- what, what do you mean
her- it seems we have different intentions. (refering to the kiss)
me- the only reason i did that was because i was a lil drunk, i just want to be friends anyway. (she would have said it if I didnt)
her- oh ok then
me- so ya, lemme know when your next day off is and we will hang out.
her-ok bla bla bla
me- ok ill talk to you later then... byeeeee
I effed it up! is there anyway i can save this or am i stuck in the friend zone for good?
being friends is better than nothing i guess but i wana marry this girl she is amazing.
im such a noob please help |
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xfman
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| Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 1:44 am Post subject: |
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I think is too late , one again , this happens because of the lack of kino at the beginning , remember you have to wait a little bit to express your intentions ('m talking about 3 to 4 min , not 4 months  ) but anyway , I guess your in LJBF and the only way you could get out of there is with little escalation of kino maybe , get another girl to try to get her jealous ... But I think this is over man your stuck in LJBF zone ...
I jsut noticed that the most common problems in the community are One-itis and the LJBF .
I will make a big post talking about this (one-itis and Friend Zone) and explaining how to avoid it and how in the ase of one-itis a few ways to get rid of the anxiety and all problems that come with one-itis.
But at least for you Brick ; I think you should use this girl as a Pivot cuz she isn't into you. Only as a friend. |
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jacked
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| Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 5:51 am Post subject: |
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| Another girl will do the trick. Surely its your only chance hook up with another girl and flaunt it infront of her, but don't speak about it. Make that girl tag along with you guys, while you are pushing major kino with the new chick etc... Things will turn here. |
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