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MaDpRoDiGy
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 Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 5:03 pm Post subject: i feel i can do anything |
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| i struggle to make small talk but sometimes i let the conversation go down and i dont want to ask a million questions either... i think i can make a good PUA because i can walk up a girl and say ANYTHING... and i also struggle to get IOIs even after 3 or 4 DHVs ... |
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Streetwisekeen
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 7:18 am Post subject: |
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If your really stuck use an opener as a convo piece.
If your struggling to get IOI's you probabally arent congruent with the material. A good DHV is a story so write out a story of yours with all the attraction switches you want to hit (preselection, social proof, ect). Then practice and deliver it. If worst goes to worst follow by leading and mention something about you and get her input in it. For example, tell a story of an adventure you had and ask her what adventerous thing shes done lately (qualifying). |
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Valence
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 2:14 pm Post subject: |
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There was a really good write up of how to conv in the blog area. I took a quick look and could not find it. You may want to look there for more info.
Quick summary though.
You do not ask a million questions. You can ask one. Something that does not have a 'yes' or 'no' answer. Within her answer, are clues that will segment into extentions of the original conv but be on a different subject. |
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Romeo7
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 11:05 pm Post subject: |
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Exactly, DO NOT ask million questions
The Art of Conversating is not about asking questions
but her, let Juggler answer that for you
Juggler, in my belief, is the bets PUA to explain that
check out his webpage, he is got some cool stuff in there |
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Paetar
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 2:49 pm Post subject: |
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As said before, about the questions etc. Don't worry, you don't need questions to get to know the girl. You want to create the feeling in woman that goes like "I feel I have known this guy forever", and only good and old friends create that. And good friends don't ask questions. Better is to make statements - like Juggler said.
When you run out of conversational threads suddenly, use an opener - other one than used before. Or just ask something like "what do you think of this picture" etc. Doesn't matter what, as long as you are talking.
Carpe Diem |
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