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Orland
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 Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 7:18 am Post subject: I crashed it up gawd, i need help |
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| K, this one girl, "HB 8.5" came into my work today. Shes a junior and goes to my school (im a senior). Anyways, she uses her friends locker which is 2 lockrs away from mine. I once butted into thier conversation and put in some decent joke that made them laugh. anyways, I saw her check me out before when i was walking down the hall two days ago so i started getting interest. She comes into my work with two of her friends , HB 9 and hb7. I work at "hollister". So i see them in the front talking and im in the second room. I decide ill go walk over and see if i can get something going. Hm, i shouldnt have ^^. When i walked over, i looked at her and then kind of smiled and said in a playful way, Locker girl, whats up. She laughs and says something like, why didnt u ever talk to me in school. I say, why didnt you. K this is where i blow it.... She says something and then im like, well your eyes were all over me or something. It came out so shitty and shes like. yea ok.. whatever. I tweeked and just felt like a fucking tard that came out of someones fat ass. I fucking like, walked away, ran into some fat ass lady and walked into the room. I NEEEEED HELP. WTF should i have done and wtf can i do now. Im still going to see her at my locker. |
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Lashram01
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| stop putting too much pressure on yerself, I fond then the times Ive allowed this to happen it onlt leads to shiit. . . .U gotta keep telling yerself that its no big deal, caus U know what? Its not. Your not gonna be homeless if you blow it with a chick, theres gonna be other girls. . . chalk things up to learning experiences - tell yerself b4 you start talking to an HB that yer gonna learn something from this interaction - dont think "Oh man I gotta het this perfect - she's so hot" - that will lead to sure failure and less to learn from. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 12:35 am Post subject: |
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Ok, FIRST, Lashram makes an excellent point. One you need to remember.
SECOND . . . Orland, from what you say, you actually DIDN'T screw it up like you think. It sounds like she would have kept talking to you and you could have negged, flirted, teased, built the sexual tension, all that. Now, you running scared probably DID give her a bad impression, but then again, you were at work, so you could always use the excuse that you couldn't stand around and talk.
So, anyway, I would just talk to her at your locker LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. Flirt with her. Neg her once. Push/pull with her. TELL her to tag along with you somewhere you're going. I might be wrong, but I would BET you haven't screwed up with her. |
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Orland
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 5:38 am Post subject: |
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ight thx alot guys
any ideas on how i could start it up at my locker? maybe incorpate something from my work?
I havnt like, tweaked balls like that for a month or so. i was like wtf....
why the hell do i care so much.... but it was so hard to forget about that night, now im all good 
thx bros |
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