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The Grinder
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 Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 2:04 am Post subject: I can't bring it to the next level. Onitis - Please help me! |
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Ok. Let me let you know my situation. I’m a college student and a lot of girls are attracted to me. I get IOIs every day from girls I’ve never even spoken to.
My problem is that things rarely ever go any further. I guess I do have a little fan club and I know girls talk about me with their friends or at least hear from me in some way or another. I just don’t know how to ask them out on a date. I’d really like to ask this HB7 I have class with out. She gives me IOIs all them time. I guess I have developed a little onitis for this girl, but that changes often and I haven't screwed anything up with this girl yet.
We’re comfortable with each other and I make her laugh all the time, but I can’t just seem to have the structured plan that I would like to have. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 5:16 am Post subject: |
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| Don't think of it as a "date". Think of it as a get together, or the two of you hanging out and enjoying each other's company. It's all just a mindset, that's it. |
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Ezoghoul
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| Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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Just plan to do something and invite her to come along. You would be going anyway so its no pressure. Then you can figure out how bad you want her!
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ChrisRocks
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Take risks, youre ending up in the LJBF zone by building up comfort first then trying to attract afterwards.
You say you get ioi's allready? then the easy job is done just reinforce this, DHV, neg etc be fun to be around.
Maybe flirt with these "other girls you get ioi's from that youve never spoken too" gives you preselection and will create jealousy in the girl your after, and will also take pressure off the oneitus. |
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The Grinder
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| Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:21 am Post subject: |
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| ChrisRocks wrote: | Take risks, youre ending up in the LJBF zone by building up comfort first then trying to attract afterwards.
You say you get ioi's allready? then the easy job is done just reinforce this, DHV, neg etc be fun to be around.
Maybe flirt with these "other girls you get ioi's from that youve never spoken too" gives you preselection and will create jealousy in the girl your after, and will also take pressure off the oneitus. |
No, I actually am attracting first, then getting IOIs, and then finally trying to build comfort. At least that's what I think is going on.
I see what you mean by flirting with some of the other girls. Get this, I found out from someone else that she has a boyfriend. What do you think about that? I'm not really sure what to think anymore. FUCK |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:35 am Post subject: |
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| The Grinder wrote: | | ChrisRocks wrote: | Take risks, youre ending up in the LJBF zone by building up comfort first then trying to attract afterwards.
You say you get ioi's allready? then the easy job is done just reinforce this, DHV, neg etc be fun to be around.
Maybe flirt with these "other girls you get ioi's from that youve never spoken too" gives you preselection and will create jealousy in the girl your after, and will also take pressure off the oneitus. |
No, I actually am attracting first, then getting IOIs, and then finally trying to build comfort. At least that's what I think is going on.
I see what you mean by flirting with some of the other girls. Get this, I found out from someone else that she has a boyfriend. What do you think about that? I'm not really sure what to think anymore. FUCK |
Whether she has a b/f or not is a non-issue . . . AT THIS POINT. If she does have one and isn't telling you, she's probably not happy with him. Ignore the rumor. Just make a mental note of it. It may be just that, a rumor. |
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