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cranberry sauce
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 Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 6:57 am Post subject: i cannot hook up with this girl...WHY ME! |
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Here's the context of the situation:
This girl i was involved with a while back..b4 i got a chance to even hook up with her i hooked up with her best friend. It ruined everything...hahaha. Well, now she's back on the market and i'm checkin it out.
I wana say D-cup. We like eachother. Also, she's pretty easy from what i see. Yet, I can't get myself to make a move. It just does not feel right. Has anyone felt this before?
If it doesn't feel right, should I wait to try and regroup to make it feel right? Or do I just go in right then and there knowing she likes me?
We're sitting on a couch tonight and i attempted to make a move. And it just turned out to be fuckin awkward and made we want to throw in the towel. Made me feel like I just wana crawl into my shell and play guitar all day...
I can be super awkward around girls sometimes. Ballsy though at the same time. Hmmm. |
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BetaMale
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| Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: Re: i cannot hook up with this girl...WHY ME! |
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| cranberry sauce wrote: | Here's the context of the situation:
We're sitting on a couch tonight and i attempted to make a move. And it just turned out to be fuckin awkward and made we want to throw in the towel. |
I'm trying to understand the situation but if you want people to put in the effort to help you, you need to put in the effort to write coherently and with proper punctuation. It just makes it easier to understand your situation.
Rant over..onto your issue.
It is possible to hook up with 2 best friends, but difficult. You really need to be a PUA and have that same mentality at all times. That means not "trying to make moves". Making moves is what you do after a movie date in Jr high school. You need to use kino etc.
But don't give up man. Even if this chick isn't into you, it likely has nothing to do with you or your game. It is more an issue of her backing up her friend. And if it is your game, there are plenty of other girls out there to practice on. |
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cranberry sauce
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| Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 6:06 am Post subject: |
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| yea, i know, i only half expected people to understand this post. The problem is that i hardly understand what's going on. |
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Mr. Natural
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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I understood what you were saying.
Here's my advice, don't make the move until your inner game is congruent with your intentions. Remember a lot of pickup is communicated through non-verbals. If you are internally at war with whether to make a move or not, she will pick up on your incongruence make you less attractive, and less likely to seduce her into sex(unless she's super-horny and doesn't give a fuck).
Evaluate if you want to fuck her and get firm on a decision. From there get your internal game in line with your decision and go in for the kill.
Good luck and hopefully happy boinking! |
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