Usually I just stick to social networks, but I've tried almost every type of message on POF but I've just come to a barrier.
The women are so snobby and prissy on POF.. I can not understand why. On almost every site you'll rarely get the snobby stuck up prissy girls trying to show you up with their bitch shield.
Anyone else have this same experience?
I was writing all sorts of messages to all sorts of girls, and I was getting nothing. One day I wrote quite a few messages to different girls and I got two replies and both were rude. I talked to my friend who lives in Northern Ireland (I'm in England) and he was getting LOADS of success.
So I decided to do an experiment.
Same profile, same message.
The only thing that was different was the area.
He sent out 10 messages, I sent out 52. (We should have agreed on the amount first, lol)
He got 6 replies, 5 of who were positive and resulted in ongoing emails back and forth. 50% positive response rate for him
For five times as many emails, I got 4 responses. 2 positive and 2 negative. 4% positive response rate.
So what I'm saying here is that it is SUPER important that you calibrate your profile to the AREA you live in. Some areas just have terrible women! Some areas women get so many messages that you are literally working 5, 6, 7 times harder to get the same response. There may be a hundred other factors too.
Personally, I've had a LOT more success on Facebook because the women are in a different mindset and accept negs etc. differently than on a dating website.
Here's something to consider.
Women of quality can go out and meet a man any time they like. What does it say about her if she gets so desperate she has to sign up to a dating website?