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routeone
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 Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 5:50 pm Post subject: How to widen social circle? |
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Hi guys,
I have a close knit group of friends, there are around 6-7 of us, it's becoming increasingly difficult to get them out and about.
I like to be out and about meeting new people, but they are happy in their own little worlds. Because one person doesn't want to do something it means he whole group follows suit.
What can I do to widen my social circle so when they are being mardy asses I can still be out and about?
I mean it's saturday night, we were all meant to be hitting the town tonight but everybody has dropped out.
It's so frustrating, it gets to the weekend and we end up doing the same old shit. 
Sorry if this is in the wrong forum, wasn't sure where to put it! |
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MindFucker
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| you know, go to get girls alone. just go alone, and your social circle will became wider. make a friendship with any MAN you'll find possible to make with. If you'll find some guys talking about something, just go there and say something, say hi to anyone and nice to meet you to anyone too. talk to them, how are they doin' with girls, talk about yourself, but don't talk about friends, if you'll tell them that your friends are losers they'll act you as one of them. Another way, just get a girl, make frienships with her friends(girls and boys). |
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jacked
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| exactly what mindfucker said, never ever ever ever put-down your friends infront of no chick, or dudes. Whatever the case, you can joke about something but don't ever put down your homeboy's. The people you chill with reflect who you are, and you can make fun of them here it doesn't matter, but outside of the internet act like you chill with great ppl, even if they can be douches. |
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VitalEyes
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I have had the same problem, so I get the numbers of anyone I sort of know who goes out in town. This could be someone from college on a completely different course who I've never spoken to, someone who works in a shop or whatever - if I notice them out in town, I will ask them another day "hey do you go out in town a lot..." then the conversation will take off, then I say "oh yah... I'll tell you what, give me your number and I'll text you next time I'm out" or whatever... then text them before your start getting ready to see if they're out.
If you're really conscious of being a billy no mates, just say your friends are meeting you later/at another club and nothing else will be said. Of course, the most ideal solution is to go out on your own though. |
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Impact
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Yeh i think we all have this problem or had! What you should do is make friends and pivots! And get those girls to brake you into their social circle of friends, from which you can make friends with the guys and start to pull the girls from there, get numbers and go out with a diff set of friends every weekend. It takes time to find your social circle or your friend which you can brake you into that. I suggest do day and night game, see what you can come up with! take all your opportunity. If they don't go out, well screw them, go alone make your own thing happen! I know its not easy to do night game, with no one watching your back! but if thats all you got, than thats all you got! Find the nicest people you can find and make friends!
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M
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Hi RouteOne,
I'll be honest with you, brother... I know that to get the best results... to get the highest quality HB... we're talking HB10's, you have to have a big social circle and merge with her social circle. But I'll be honest with you man... that takes A LOT of time and effort. Time and effort, that sadly, I don't have.
So for me... I've always gone Splinter Cell style. Or 007 style if you prefer. Just me... and my F-wing. The two of us is all I've ever needed. 'Cause my F-wing knows exactly what to do.
Besides, I always find that in big groups, my other guy friends always subconsciously AMOG me to get the hottest target anyways... so I prefer to have it Splinter Cell Style.
Respectfully,
M |
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