 Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 10:16 am Post subject: How to View Rejection |
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The Best image or quote ive ever heard and has been the most helpful in me being able to handle rejection was from Lovedrop. (Most ppls AA stems fm a fear of rejection)
He said this: "When people try to lower your value in some way, Just invision yourself as a Ghost, and that person is just a monkey trying to throw shit at you (lol, what a great image!) Obviously bc youre a ghost, the shit simply passes right through you and youre completely unaffected. You are Unaffected by people being dicks or bitches OR by women being attractive. Just let that shit go right through you- this is being alpha.
Im now kinda deep into learning about pu, and i just got blown out by like 3 sets last time i sarged and it kinda suckd, (but luckily i ran into a cutie i already knew and it was on), and thus my persistance to get better at pu was indirectly rewarded. I got to skip opening which i was getting stuck on at the time, and work on the other pts of the game bldng attraction, comfort, kino, etc. --> kiss/#close. But after I went home, i analyzed where it went wrong w/ the sets i unsuccessfully opend, and tried to calibrate my game accordingly.
But my pt in bringing this up is this. Dont look at it as Rejection any more, but rather as Flaws in Your Game that need to be fixed and opportunities to learn and get better. Most of the time its not that shes a bitch but that you were not successful in breaking the bitch shield, or didnt dhv, etc. Would u get all bummed out if you messed up while learning how to do cook a particular meal in culinary school? No, you shouldn't. You should realize youre a student who has much to learn; swallow your pride and simply learn fm your mistakes and later youll eventually become a master chef one day. I believe this is a very powerful mindset that can help you a lot in life, not just in pu. I guess, while still learning about pu, look at interactions w/ women as just practice quizzes and not the final exam. |
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