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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 8:43 pm 
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I prefer indirect approach and I dont mind getting out of my comfort zone to go talk to a girl in maybe a mall or store. My fear is not approaching its more of when I say an opener and she gives it a 1 small comment or smile, Where do I go from here?

Example:
Inside the Mall
Me: Im sorry to bother you but I couldnt help but to come up here and tell you that your very cute. (with smile)

Her: Oh Thank you (smiles back)

Me. Im Brandon, whats your name?
(Try use handshake with kino and firm hand a little harder before letting go)

Her: im _______

Me: I Like that name!


What would I say next? What are different possible Transitions I can use in a scenario like this???


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 8:56 pm 
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personally i think this approach sucks, but it might work for you, plus you have the balls to actually approach a girl

the reason i think it sucks is because girls hear compliments all day everyday and the main thing about being a PUA is not being the average joe,

with that approach you might get away with say "you mind if we exchange numbers so i can get to know you a little better"

or if you really want to keep the convo going you could ask her if she's Christmas shopping or since you like compliments you can say "i can see you dress nice you must be out shopping for another great outfit" (if i did that i would say it in a sarcastic tone) or if you're like me and don't give a F*** about lying to a girl i just want to have sex with i would make up a story like "oh whatever you do do not go to _____ the cashier there is a bitch she ___________"

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 9:22 pm 
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You "transition" by rambling. Rambling is great because it isn't even a transition anymore, it becomes your game.

Now look, rambling takes balls, just like anything you have to do it. What is rambling? It's talking about anything and everything. Tell her she's cute on the opener, then quickly notice shit about her and talk about that, or talk about something that happened to you before or yesterday, or talk about how amazing the weather is for a date wink wink cheeky. Or tell her to quickly walk with you and chat about her favourite dress.

This is where the saying "what you say doesn't matter, it's HOW you say it" comes in. Of course it matters that you say something, but that something can be anything apart from the obvious things you wouldn't talk about like rape, murder, insulting her or her friend, or anything that causes girls to run away screaming ohmygodhesscary.

Rambling is learnt easily, it's not something you require much training for, in fact it comes when you are in a talkative state of mind and you can get yourself there quite easily. Force yourself to talk about something and go on every tangent possible, whatever comes to your mind. This is called free association and shifts your mind into a forward thinking mode, where you do not look back at what you said but always move forward, the way it should be. This is also how you pass shit tests by the way, by constantly moving forward in your conversations, never looking back, because looking back causes you to analyze what you just said, self doubt, say you're sorry for saying something when there was no need for apology, etc. Moving forward in you conversations is the way to game constantly, which means you can make mistakes in your conversation game because even if she is a little weirded out, you are spouting so much shit that she'll forget it in the next 5 seconds. The great masters of the game don'T have top notch conversation skills, they just don't look back.

That's how you transition from open to bed.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 11:29 pm 
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You "transition" by rambling. Rambling is great because it isn't even a transition anymore, it becomes your game.

Now look, rambling takes balls, just like anything you have to do it. What is rambling? It's talking about anything and everything. Tell her she's cute on the opener, then quickly notice shit about her and talk about that, or talk about something that happened to you before or yesterday, or talk about how amazing the weather is for a date wink wink cheeky. Or tell her to quickly walk with you and chat about her favourite dress.

This is where the saying "what you say doesn't matter, it's HOW you say it" comes in. Of course it matters that you say something, but that something can be anything apart from the obvious things you wouldn't talk about like rape, murder, insulting her or her friend, or anything that causes girls to run away screaming ohmygodhesscary.

Rambling is learnt easily, it's not something you require much training for, in fact it comes when you are in a talkative state of mind and you can get yourself there quite easily. Force yourself to talk about something and go on every tangent possible, whatever comes to your mind. This is called free association and shifts your mind into a forward thinking mode, where you do not look back at what you said but always move forward, the way it should be. This is also how you pass shit tests by the way, by constantly moving forward in your conversations, never looking back, because looking back causes you to analyze what you just said, self doubt, say you're sorry for saying something when there was no need for apology, etc. Moving forward in you conversations is the way to game constantly, which means you can make mistakes in your conversation game because even if she is a little weirded out, you are spouting so much shit that she'll forget it in the next 5 seconds. The great masters of the game don'T have top notch conversation skills, they just don't look back.

That's how you transition from open to bed.
Rambling.... I like that term. Well put my friend.


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