How to tell the good from the bad.

Strive

Part of my goal in the whole pua experience is to learn enough so when I meet a quality girl I will be confident enough to take advantage of my good fortune (I say good fortune as most the girls I meet are very two faced and the ones that aren't are married). The question I would throw out there is are there ways of telling if a girl is of quality or not without having to put a lot of time in? What are some warning signs you guys have seen a few times that let you know to stay away?

Methuselah · Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:12 pm Post subject:

Well, there certainly is no way of just being able to look at a particular woman and tell if she is a "good girl" or a "bad girl"; you will have to invest at least a small degree of time with her in order to do a proper primary assessment of her persona.

Some things you can do:

1) The way she dresses is usually a good indicator about what kind of girl she is. Of course, all girls you meet in a bar or club will be dressed provocatively; however you should be able to tell the difference between the sluts and the ones just dressing sexy. You always want to go for a girl who is dressed conservatively but sexy at the same time. I recommend never going for the girl who is wearing the smallest outfit, this is usually a good sign shes a disease infested bar-skank. This works out in the streets and other venues as well.

2) Ask questions that you want particular answers to. Yes, this may take some time, but you can ask selective questions to women you are speaking to and depending on they answers they give, you can judge their inner qualities. Sometimes all it takes is a few questions and you can tell alot about someone.

3) Same as above, but listen to her respond to other people's conversations with her.

4) Body language. Watch how she holds herself? You can always tell if a person is over-confident, insecure, bitchy, etc by

5) While talking to her, analyze her speech. If your looking for a "good girl" you should be looking out for someone who has correct grammar and a vocabulary more advanced than "cool!" "awesome!" "really?" "omg!" etc.

Strive · Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 1:24 am Post subject:

Thanks for the comments Methuselah. Just for future comments by "Not having to put a lot of time in" I mean not more then 2-3 dates.

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