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tweeby Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: How to tell if she's dating someone |
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Ok this is another girl...
Basically, I don't know if she's taken. She seems interested, she makes an effort to say hello, she remembered what I do, etc.
It was her birthday, so I asked her what she was doing.
She said "We're going shopping." (with the girls or bf?)
How can you ask a girl if she's dating without making it obvious...
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chio Dedicated Member
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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| Who cares if she's dating someone, as long as she's dating you. |
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tweeby Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 7:08 pm Post subject: |
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Hmm, well I know the best answer would be to game her anyway, and if she is attached then she'll make it known.
But I was thinking is there like a question that works all the time.
Like the kiss close:
Guy: Do you want to kiss me?
Hb: Maybe (do it)
Hb: Yes (do it)
Hb: No .... Guy: I didn't say you could, it just seemed like you had something on your mind. |
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Jay Wa PUA Forum Addict
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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I call it the "Royal We". . .I use it in pretty much all of my interactions with women.
I'm assuming this girl does it too. It does not necessarily imply that she has a boyfriend.
| Quote: | | It was her birthday, so I asked her what she was doing. |
Wrong move. You should have said, "Hey, so what are we doing for your birthday?" The Royal We, ya dig? |
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ArtistryInMotion New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 9:15 pm Post subject: |
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| It sounds to me like she means her and her girlfriends. Either way - just keep gaming her. |
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Enterprise PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | She said "We're going shopping." |
"Oh, girls night out?" |
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sL!CK PUA Forum Addict
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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| It's all fair game unless she is dating your friend. |
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Nex PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 7:10 am Post subject: |
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My favorite:
"So your boyfriend isn't going to kick my ass for talking to you?"
Her: "...What boyfriend?" |
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They Call Me Lucid PUA Forum Zealot
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 8:03 am Post subject: |
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| always assume that she isnt dating. if she is, she will be the one to let you know if she feels uncomfortable. even if she is dating anyone, she may still not tell you and have some fun on the side |
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