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.EnVy.
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 Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:32 am Post subject: How to recover from overnegging. |
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It's a mistake ALL PUAs make:
overnegging. They don't know
when to stop.
What should you do if a girl calls
you an "asshole"?
How would you guys reply?
I have my way, but let me hear
how you guys usually reply to that. |
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Trivial
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:38 am Post subject: |
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| I go with styles "I come from a family that was a a verbal abusive family that showed affection through teasing, lets start over, I'm Trivial" |
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:39 am Post subject: |
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| Tell her to not be mean, and re-calibrate? |
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A-Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 5:01 am Post subject: |
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| eveyone should already know about how over-negging makes you look like a dick...its the truth |
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masterPUA
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 5:05 am Post subject: |
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| hand on shoulder "im just kidding... (with drawl) you know you look cute even when your mad." |
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fortunehooks
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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| over negging is something where I am trying to overcome with this HB at the moment. I believe to never seem like you are over negging is to give 2 IOI's for every neg. That's my new routine, not field tested yet, but will be. |
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.EnVy.
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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| fortunehooks wrote: | | over negging is something where I am trying to overcome with this HB at the moment. I believe to never seem like you are over negging is to give 2 IOI's for every neg. That's my new routine, not field tested yet, but will be. |
That's a good idea...but that's
too many IOIs. Plus, you need
to give IOIs in A3, and negging
occurs in A1 and A2. So that
MIGHT not work. But field test it,
and keep us updated.
As for the girl, I usually just say:
"whoa, whoa, don't judge me. You
don't even know me yet! How about
you take me out to dinner first before
you jump to comclusions. I'm sure
you'll find that I'm better than all the
other TRUE assholes in your past."
Works like a charm EVERY time. |
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JSMOOTH
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| Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 10:37 pm Post subject: Recover from Over Negging |
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Recovery from Over Negging. "Do you know your cheeks get red when you're angry? It's still cute though. Next Thread"
I typically use another neg, but then give an IOI, like in the example above to keep your DHV but soften the blow to your target. Some people suggest. Doing something like you're right, I owe you some attention, Come with me. Then move her to C1 (Another location inside the club/bar/whatever.)
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.EnVy.
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| Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 1:54 pm Post subject: Re: Recover from Over Negging |
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| JSMOOTH wrote: | Recovery from Over Negging. "Do you know your cheeks get red when you're angry? It's still cute though. Next Thread"
I typically use another neg, but then give an IOI, like in the example above to keep your DHV but soften the blow to your target. Some people suggest. Doing something like you're right, I owe you some attention, Come with me. Then move her to C1 (Another location inside the club/bar/whatever.)
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Well I mean if she thinks you're a prick,
then should you really be moving on to
the next stage?
ESPECIALLY C1?? |
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