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Augustus
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 Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 7:25 pm Post subject: How to rebound from a failed kino |
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| Well I have been wondering, this one girl I have been sarging seems to be a bit of a flirt so before I do any handholding kino tests I would like some damage control lines for a failed handhold. Anyone have any? |
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Titan
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| Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 10:05 pm Post subject: |
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| "Don't be scared, I'm not going to eat you" is simple and should work. Make sure you sound confident, like you know what you're doing. |
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Augustus
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| Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 12:17 am Post subject: |
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| Oh yea that sounds good thanks man |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 4:03 am Post subject: |
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| The idea behind Kino is to be subtle enough to not be able to fail. Kino escalation. Touch her back first or some other part of the body before going strait for a hand hold. You should be able to judge her willingness to touch you more from her reaction to your original physical contact. |
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Realz
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| I have a question sorta about this.. (Im still in skool) when you first are introduced to a girl do u give her a hug, like if your friend introduced you or would she think thats weird.. And also if you start talkin to a girl in your class and you see her again should you give her a hug?? Or jus say hey then as you talk to her jus build the attraction and wait for her to give you a hug. (Ive wondered this for a while so lots of views would be greatly appreciated) |
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C-DUB
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| Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 11:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Ez wrote: | | I have a question sorta about this.. (Im still in skool) when you first are introduced to a girl do u give her a hug, like if your friend introduced you or would she think thats weird.. And also if you start talkin to a girl in your class and you see her again should you give her a hug?? Or jus say hey then as you talk to her jus build the attraction and wait for her to give you a hug. (Ive wondered this for a while so lots of views would be greatly appreciated) |
Highschool I assume.
Normally people shake hands as a greeting. You don't know her well enough to hug if you just met them.
Just say hello if they walk by.
Hugs are for hanging out on 1on1 situations. |
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| Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 12:14 am Post subject: |
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| C-DUB wrote: | | Highschool I assume. |
Yes, High school |
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noel123
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| Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 5:43 am Post subject: |
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| Ez wrote: | | I have a question sorta about this.. (Im still in skool) when you first are introduced to a girl do u give her a hug, like if your friend introduced you or would she think thats weird.. And also if you start talkin to a girl in your class and you see her again should you give her a hug?? Or jus say hey then as you talk to her jus build the attraction and wait for her to give you a hug. (Ive wondered this for a while so lots of views would be greatly appreciated) |
when i get introduced i usually say,
sorry , i dont give hand shakes.... i give hugs (smile) 
and after the hug it was nice to meet you blah blah ....
give it a try. |
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| noel123 wrote: | | Ez wrote: | | I have a question sorta about this.. (Im still in skool) when you first are introduced to a girl do u give her a hug, like if your friend introduced you or would she think thats weird.. And also if you start talkin to a girl in your class and you see her again should you give her a hug?? Or jus say hey then as you talk to her jus build the attraction and wait for her to give you a hug. (Ive wondered this for a while so lots of views would be greatly appreciated) |
when i get introduced i usually say,
sorry , i dont give hand shakes.... i give hugs (smile)
and after the hug it was nice to meet you blah blah ....
give it a try. |
I do something similar, but after the initial hug I'll say "No, I mean a *real* hug - you know, heart (pointing at my heart) to heart (pointing at her heart)". And then we hug heart to heart. |
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Music28
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i wouldn't EVER hug a girl I just met for one very simple reason, and it is this:
It builds comfort.
Isn't that a good thing, you ask? Not right away. Remember:
Attraction--> Comfort --> Seduction = Close
Starting off by building comfort makes you the 'nice guy'. (sequencing mistake #2 in Mystery's book)
When you just met a girl, you haven't created any attraction yet, through DHV, Negging, etc.
If you want to be seen as 'nice', hug her. If you want to be seen as a potential mate..... don't. |
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magicJ2007
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 3:31 am Post subject: |
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If you faild from KINO ...... or ,,, if the HB prevents you from KINO
what you need to do is
FUcking neg her .. NEG her hard - for her behavior.
NEG and Tease.
Magic J |
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 4:06 am Post subject: |
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| magicJ2007 wrote: | If you faild from KINO ...... or ,,, if the HB prevents you from KINO
what you need to do is
FUcking neg her .. NEG her hard - for her behavior.
NEG and Tease.
Magic J |
This is good advice.
When you're hugging, you're trying to generate comfort. If she rejects the hug, that means she is not ready for the 'comfort' phase. In a situation like this, you need to go back to attracting, and then try again later.
Likewise, if you try to seduce and get rejected, go back to generate more comfort and attraction.
Attraction--> Comfort --> Seduce --> Close. |
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