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WillieB.Long
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 Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 7:54 pm Post subject: How to meet this girl (on facebook) as a friend? |
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I have been talking to a girl over the last few days. She is what some of you would call a 10 - amazing body, really pretty, and seems really nice and friendly to talk to. I opened her directly, and we had a pretty good conversation. I think she's interested, even though she has a boyfriend, as she has told me that she looked through my pics and like my body, when i disqualified nyself by saying ''if you didn't have a bf you'd so be mine'' she told me ''oh that's a shame I'm taken, that doesn't sound like a bad offer'', and she has been writing pretty long messages. I think it would be easy to meet up with her and get into her pants, however my main focus at the moment is building a social circle. She is really hot, and she has hot friends, so it would be great to have them all in my social circle just as friends, then whenever I go out sarging I could take them with me and boost my success rate massively.
My question to you guys is how do I invite her to hang out as just a friend? I don't wanna come off as pretending to ber her friend just to get into her pants, I don't wanna come across as just settling for being her friend because I don't think I'm good enough, so how would you guys do it in a way that communicates in a high value way that I just wanna be friends with her? |
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xiagox
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With friends it's easier because you can just tell her what your intentions are. Just tell her 'hey I'm new to the area and am trying to develop a strong social circle.' and invite her to an event with your friends, something like watching tv or boardgames, things that friends do.
To not come off needy remember to keep the flirtatious banter with her going. Demonstrate you have a cool lifestyle and your golden.
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WillieB.Long
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| Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:08 pm Post subject: |
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I would find something we have in common, something we both really like to do and invite her to do it, with her friends and BOYFRIEND! Inviting the boyfriend will 1) asure her you not trying to play friend to get in her pants 2) Confuse her a bit too, coz probably that's not what she's expecting from you right now!
Go out as a group and make sure you show them a good time! Her friends will become your firends in a sec and later on when she has a fight with her boyfriend ( these fights always come, just wait for it) guess who will be there for her?!
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xiagox
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Yes, I'd just like to reiterate an important point. You have to maintain the sexual tension between the two of you, but logically disqualify yourself (oh, you have a boyfriend, I can't possibly hookup with you). This is how you can hookup with her, should you ever choose to do so.
Another important point is to try to become a part of her social circle (by befriending her friends) and/or integrating her social circle into your own (assuming you have one). This is important because you never know when you may fight with her for whatever reason (women are sometimes fickle plan for it). In this way you may not be friends with her but her friends will then say 'well, willie.b.long is MY friend now, so if you have a problem with him that's between you two', they will still want to be friends with you.
lookup braddocks material on social circle game, it's very good. |
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WillieB.Long
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| Thanks I'll definately have to check Braddock's stuff out. |
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