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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2014 1:03 pm 
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Ok so I am well aware that being turned- down by a woman is not "rejection" per se but it is the only word i can think of for it.

Say you are talking to a girl either by herself or in a crowd and she is not interested in you, are their ways in which you could possibly turn this around for yourself or how do you play it off to where it does not DHV you?

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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2014 1:12 pm 
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You'd need to ignore her and be immensely funny and entertaining to the rest of the crowd.


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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2014 6:19 pm 
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If you can sense it's not going anywhere and need to eject without it effecting your self esteem the best solution is to barrel through talking as if you're oblivious to her signals then ask the question "What to you do for a living?" then hold the silence till she speaks; the silence creates psychological pressure for her to answer.

When she does tell you - and whatever she says - take a slow step backwards and if you're holding a drink bring it in front of you as a barrier. Then just say "Okaaaay... well have a good night anyway" then turn round and walk off slowly shaking your head as you head back to your buddies.

Congratulations... you just rejected her and everyone watching saw it happen. This hits a girl hard as a lot of her self esteem comes from her job and is part of her "value identity"

I've done this myself and seen it done many times and it's very effective.

One warning though: about half the time the girl will grab your arm or try and engage you back in the conversation. Don't be tempted, consider the approach burnt: period. All she will do is try to get you to validate her and as soon as you do she will lose interest again.


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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2014 8:05 pm 
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rejection is fucking great. it means that you are very near to the YES.
you'll never have 100% success but more times you are rejected the closer you are to that yes. so just keep it going.

don't feel like that it's stupid. it's like running a marathon and you are at the 40km and decide to stop because it's too long. just keep it going. you are almost there. rejections are great! embrace them!
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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2014 8:12 pm 
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rejection is fucking great. it means that you are very near to the YES.
you'll never have 100% success but more times you are rejected the closer you are to that yes. so just keep it going.

don't feel like that it's stupid. it's like running a marathon and you are at the 40km and decide to stop because it's too long. just keep it going. you are almost there. rejections are great! embrace them!
practice makes perfect.
Very true, when you get rejected it improves your game as you learn what works and what doesn't. Just don't take it personally. If you spend 6 hours on the approach telling your life story and revealing everything about yourself and THEN she rejects you then yes take it personally.


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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2014 1:25 pm 
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I agree with Melodical, displaying body language to the rest of the room that you're not being rejected will make sure your value stays high, no-one else can hear what's being said after all. Are you positioning yourself so that it looks like she's gaming you during the interaction?

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rejection is fucking great. it means that you are very near to the YES.
you'll never have 100% success but more times you are rejected the closer you are to that yes. so just keep it going.

don't feel like that it's stupid. it's like running a marathon and you are at the 40km and decide to stop because it's too long. just keep it going. you are almost there. rejections are great! embrace them!
practice makes perfect.
Very true, when you get rejected it improves your game as you learn what works and what doesn't. Just don't take it personally. If you spend 6 hours on the approach telling your life story and revealing everything about yourself and THEN she rejects you then yes take it personally.
doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results it's called stupidity.
little can be learn with successes. embrace your rejections and learn from them improve yourself every time. they are great.


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