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subwaycloser New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:14 am Post subject: HOW TO EASILY EMAIL CLOSE HB IN SUBWAY OR COFFEE SHOP |
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This is one has worked for me 100% of the time. Spot an HB with a book in a coffee shop or a subway (or with a computer). Then just either sit next to her or stand close (if it's the subway). Ignore her completely for the next stop or for a while, especially until the people that were around her have gotten off the train. Then ask her what she's reading, and ask her if you can take a look at the book. Now do your magic and let her start talking about the book. Look for funny opportunities and soft neg (somehow the bad negs have not worked for me). Then say something about your conversation topic or about these other cool books that you have and that you want to let her in on (or you can change the topic to music and say you want her to give you links to her music or vice versa). Then just ask for the email, simple. She will almost always give it to you because that is the only way you can send her the links, music or info that you promised!!
The ones that have objected I have just gone like, "look it's only email, don't worry, I have tons of spam that I really want to send to someone and you might be just the right person!!...Don't worry maybe I'll just send some 25 emails a day!!" |
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Yttrium PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:53 am Post subject: |
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| Standing next to her for a while without saying anything might be weird. It can make you seem like you are trying to work up the nerve to talk to her. |
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SnowBlow PUA Forum Enthusiast
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| I can see some flaws but overall its ok. I wouldnt ask to look at the book though. I would throw a neg at the book. |
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Flick New to PUA Forum
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| Depending on what sources you have around you try this. Try and catch the title of the book. Then if you have a phone or laptop around anything can get you as much info on the book use it. This you can then use to just say "What book are you reading?" When she tells you you have the basic knowledge to talk about it. |
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r34ct PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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Patience PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:34 am Post subject: |
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| 3 second rule here guys. just go for it. dont wait. |
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Enso New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 9:46 am Post subject: |
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To me that sounds very similar to um.. oh whats it called again.. gee..
Normal conversation? That's the ticket.
Just goes to show that a really confident guy without game can get places with normal conversation. If you are going to ignore her for a while, make sure you never look at her, because then you have plausible deniability that you were not infanct trying to work the nerve up and that you were in fact just in your own little world.
Either way, good to see you getting success in casual day game! Good work. |
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mbkb24 PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:34 am Post subject: |
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| Patience wrote: | | 3 second rule here guys. just go for it. dont wait. |
ma brotha i agree |
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TheEssence New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 2:11 am Post subject: |
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| SnowBlow wrote: | | I can see some flaws but overall its ok. I wouldnt ask to look at the book though. I would throw a neg at the book. |
and i wasnt too fond the email objection.
reason: imagine how thought up that sounds to a girl.. a guy giving a detailed explanation like that |
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fabie PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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| TheEssence wrote: | | SnowBlow wrote: | | I can see some flaws but overall its ok. I wouldnt ask to look at the book though. I would throw a neg at the book. |
and i wasnt too fond the email objection.
reason: imagine how thought up that sounds to a girl.. a guy giving a detailed explanation like that |
I disagree, the fact that the explanation is so long and cocky, allows you to DHV some with your humor, and that might just be what is needed to get an email, but I would suggest to go for a number, because, emails can just be ignored, numbers will atleast allow you to speak to her. |
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V1V Dedicated Member
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Posted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 10:36 pm Post subject: Re: HOW TO EASILY EMAIL CLOSE HB IN SUBWAY OR COFFEE SHOP |
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| subwaycloser wrote: | This is one has worked for me 100% of the time. Spot an HB with a book in a coffee shop or a subway (or with a computer). Then just either sit next to her or stand close (if it's the subway). Ignore her completely for the next stop or for a while, especially until the people that were around her have gotten off the train. Then ask her what she's reading, and ask her if you can take a look at the book. Now do your magic and let her start talking about the book. Look for funny opportunities and soft neg (somehow the bad negs have not worked for me). Then say something about your conversation topic or about these other cool books that you have and that you want to let her in on (or you can change the topic to music and say you want her to give you links to her music or vice versa). Then just ask for the email, simple. She will almost always give it to you because that is the only way you can send her the links, music or info that you promised!!
The ones that have objected I have just gone like, "look it's only email, don't worry, I have tons of spam that I really want to send to someone and you might be just the right person!!...Don't worry maybe I'll just send some 25 emails a day!!" |
ok vizualise this for a second. lets say your an afc - hypothetically of course. you see a hb next to yu reading a book. what is the first thing your going to ask then afc? hey. what are you reading? Not cool in pua world. or hher world. shes probably heard it 10000 times before. not - oh my god! the care bears proved that girls who read that book are a dweeb! are you different? no. what are you reading. great opener ^o). yes that was sarcasm bdw.
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