How to deal with a girl who has a boyfriend

Vedere

Hey guys,

I recently met this girl who has a 2 year relationship, but sometimes she "flirts" with me. I'm seeing a girl now and she's telling me, on an ironic tone, how she is very sad. She offered me to go to the shop for me in my exams.

A week ago we had this chat
She : where's your girl
Me : waiting for me at my house with a bunch of roses I guess Wink

hah
she : But now I'm here you're not planning to go there do you Wink

Me froze*

Okay, I totally froze after that comment and didn't know what to say. Any suggestions? I have a lot of problems how to handle freezes ( like you cannot say a word ) in general.

My second question is : we go for a drink a lot together, watch some movies. If she were single I would have already highered up my game, but she's not and I have fear to go for kino escalation.
Anybody can help me how to gradually build this up with this girl?

Thanks

LuckyMan · Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 10:26 pm Post subject:

well, treat her like any other girl without a boyfriend.

if the boyfriend isn't there and she doesn't care then you shouldn't either.

she is sending you the IOI's man, just escalate with KINO anyways.

Vedere · Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 11:22 am Post subject: girl with BF

Thanks for your advice dude.

It took me some time, but I never was quite common with the kino.

I started the kino, and soon she was responding greating ( where I sometimes negged her with : heey not so fast, hands off;) )

The kiss came naturally.

Now a next question, we kiss/kino often but I feel that she doesn't want to have sex ( there is always that LMR ) because of her boyfriend. What should I do? I get her aroused but then she doesn't want to..

And another thing, how do I deal with the boyfriend thing? Do I say that she has to make a choice and break up with him and stay with me? I don't think so ! Any advice?

Vedere

LuckyMan · Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 10:05 pm Post subject:

if she doesn't want to have sex, it's your fault.

next time you see her and before you kiss her, slowly rub your fingers through her hands, like your giving her a pump of energy. then move to the ears with this same tactic, speed up!! but then slow down. make it seem like your pumping the energy, then slow down your speach, make every word seem important. that way she will look at you lips. that way, you have been leading up to this kiss, and she will be very aroused.

the more powerful the statements of energy are, the more aroused she will be. make her so aroused that she will just have sex with you, and then it will be an accident. then you can tell her it was an "accident, and unbeknown powers influenced your decision, so it doesn't count as cheating."

you have to do it so well, it will actually seem like an accident.

you don't have to use this method, but you need to make it seem accidental.

tell her that you have heard stories of many friends having sex, and it doesn't count as cheating, because it wasn't with a stranger.

make her feel comfertable, do NOT force her, or tell her something like, "it's my way or the highway," because then you will most likely only do it once.

Vedere · Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 4:09 pm Post subject:

Especially that last one is important !

Everything goes great.

She told me something like : errmm.. better stop.. my boyfriend.. not good..

And I answered : okay, chill, I don't care, you do whatever you want. Do what you think you must do ( however I like this girl A LOT ). After I said that she even liked me more and said she liked me too much.
( The AFC me before would have said : oooh please, don't abbandon me , I love you too much, dump him, love me, I want to do everything for you )

And for the rest : I'll wait to get further. Things are going great now and it doesn't need to speed up !

Thanks dude

Jay Wa · Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:45 pm Post subject:

I would have responded with,

"No, I suppose we'll have to go to your place instead."

Jay Wa · Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 9:48 pm Post subject:

^^^^^

That was in regards to your original post.

Mystery says to agree with her and do it anyway.

"This is so wrong."- Her
"I know. I feel the same way." - You

But then you keep kissing her. Get it?

King Korona · Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 10:00 pm Post subject:

u said u have a girlfriend too. is she also serious or is she more so a 10 night stand type thing.

Vedere · Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:04 pm Post subject:

@ Jay wa

Yeah man ! I did it and it actually helped me .

@ King korona

I think the serious type. And if not, plenty of fish in the sea !

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I feel like on the top of the world. I feel like I reached this goal thanks to all this PUA-material. I see actually how I would be LJBF'd if I didn't read all this. Also this things open my eyes for all the AFC's out there who try to hit on my girl and others. And there are A LOT. And I feel pity for them. I'm far from a PUA but at least I'm not an AFC anymore !

Lone Wolf · Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 7:02 pm Post subject:

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