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Kasa
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 Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 9:43 pm Post subject: How to be friends with a hot girl |
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| Hb10 gave me hugs for first 2 weeks of knowing her. I didn't try to game her because she was best friends with a girl I hang out with a lot. I still gave her hugs a lot because i love hugs. One day i saw her and was about to hug her like usual, she told me she doesn't like hugs. I know this is a lie because she hugs every one else and use to hug me. I've been her friend for 4 months now. I want to start hanging out with her out side of school. She has never asked me if I would want to do anything with her out side of school. What can I do to make her more comfortable around me. Do you think she may think I like her and just don't show it? How can i build comfort that will help her like me better as a friend. I never plan on gaming this girl i just want to be good friends with her. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 12:41 am Post subject: |
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| try and set up like a group event with your mutual friend, like a movie and stuff, set it up with your mutual friend knowing she will pry invite the hb, and invite other people. the best way to hang out with someone outside of class is to do it as a group when the person is not a target. |
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Mr. Amador
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The way to get friends with anyone is to have a personality that makes people like to be around you.
I make friends easly because I am a funny guy...and because I have another personality traits that other people find appealing.
Why that crap about "dont like hugs"? well that is and always is going to be a mystery....women are such complicated creatures ¿dont you think?
Making friends is to make people like you. If you can make her like you in a non-sexual way...there you go: a new friend.
If you have the slightest intention to game this girl dont.
Getting into the friends zone is like a snowball rolling down the hill....first small, then a giant deadly ball of sestruction!!!!! (LOL  LOL I think juggler said that)
Another way to get to be her friend is to relate to her...find something you have in common with her.
The goal is that you can hang out with her in the same way you do with your male friends.
Think about it.....you have to figure how do it by yourself...cause you are the only one that can talk to the girl |
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mOlis_pir3s
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meet up with some friends and her obviously but dont pay enormous sexual attention..you could flirt with some other girl so she sees that youre not that interested..since shes a 10 she obviously is going to think that you're into her..as long as you create a laugh for the pple round you and act amog-ish and definetily comfortable you should be better off by the end of the night.
oh yeah, dont totaly ignore her.. |
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Kasa
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:00 pm Post subject: |
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| Well I have been better at getting people to talk to me. As for the group hang out thing I'll try to think of something and set it up. |
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Mr. Amador
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| Kasa wrote: | | Well I have been better at getting people to talk to me. As for the group hang out thing I'll try to think of something and set it up. |
Well, give it at shot an tell us how did it went.  |
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shoofy
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Well man I am going to tell you something that I have seen to be true. There is no such thing as “just friends” with a guy and a girl. Unless you’re gay then there is always either the guy or the girl that will eventually start liking the other one. I think what your problem might be is like someone else said. That you shouldn’t spend time together alone this tends to create that attraction.
Just for reference if she is a 10 and you hangout with her after school. Then why not see where it can go? I’m guessing you guys get along good if you are friends.
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Mr. Amador
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| shoofy wrote: | Well man I am going to tell you something that I have seen to be true. There is no such thing as “just friends” with a guy and a girl. Unless you’re gay then there is always either the guy or the girl that will eventually start liking the other one. I think what your problem might be is like someone else said. That you shouldn’t spend time together alone this tends to create that attraction.
Just for reference if she is a 10 and you hangout with her after school. Then why not see where it can go? I’m guessing you guys get along good and all of that if you are friends. |
That about guys dont being able to be friends with a girl...Is a guy thing. Girls can be friends with guys...if everything on the relationship is clear (no covert intentions, or hitting on her later on)
Its rare but sometimes friends start liking each other, and end up having sex.
But as I said before:
| Quote: | | Getting into the friends zone is like a snowball rolling down the hill....first small, then a giant deadly ball of sestruction!!!!! (LOL I think juggler said that) |
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