How should i approach this HB?

mii · Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 4:48 am Post subject: How should i approach this HB?

Theres an HB9 who i sometimes walk by in the morning shes goes to her bus stop go to my school (we go to different schools) I just want to know how to approach her because we both are going opposite directions and shes in a hurry to make her bus. So I'm not sure what i should do here?

Cretin105 · Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 5:42 am Post subject:

have u ever talked to her? you can start by saying "hi" its the simplest canned opener ever

mii · Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 6:01 am Post subject:

No i haven't ive only seen her two or 3 times but that was all in the same week Maybe shes new to the area. I just dont wont to come off as an AFC.

Mr Fahrenheit · Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 6:25 am Post subject:

id rather approach and come off as something than stay seated and not come off at all. Grow some fucking balls. say 'hi, i knew id be kicking myself for the rest of the day/week if i didnt come over here and say hello to you, i dont think we have much time to talk now, do you have email?' bam

if it fails just sit back down at least you did something, with so little time it is best to be direct my friend and what i just gave you was direct.

mii · Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 10:51 pm Post subject:

mii · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 1:03 am Post subject:

I'm gonna say just say hi how are you? one day and leave it at that and then the next day take a peace of paper write down my name and email and give it to her when she walks by. but i wont stop her. cuz then she might feel uncomfertable.

Does this sound good?

GRKiller · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 1:11 am Post subject:

Mr Fahrenheit · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 9:25 am Post subject:

Just say what i said, wtf is wrong with you? Dont ask for advice then shun it, what i said is the most effective way of getting in contact with this girl.

shameless11 · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 9:36 am Post subject:

Not sure if you're the gent I spoke to in the chat today about this. In any case, you could try a simple little approach I suggested earlier.

Sit at her stop one morning reading the paper or a book. Get there early. Wait til she's walking towards the stop. As she passes you, drop a bic pen on the ground. Bend down and call out to her:
-Hey
*she turns, touch her arm, make eye contact and smile*
-I think you dropped this.
+That's not mine.
-Oh, I take it you prefer pencils then. I'm not partial to erasers myself, but not everybody is perfect.
*gage reaction*
-So you go to *your school here* right?
+No i go to *her school*
-Ah makes sense, figured I knew pretty much everybody at *your school*
^dhv
-What is your name?
*name*
-Well nice to meet you *name*. I like your (pick something about her outfit to comment on, make it witty).
*touch her arm, make her laugh at your corny fashion comment*
-Anyways, I have to get to class, we can't all play hooky and flirt all day.
^neg, time constraint, soi
-But we can finish this conversation after school. You can try to sell me on why *her school* is worth chasing the bus every morning.
^neg
*hand her your phone, maintain eye contact*
-Lets call it 2:30, right across the street for a late lunch (or whatever you want).
^number close and a date
-See you later *name*! *smile, turn and walk away*

See how that works out for you.

Mr Fahrenheit · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:13 am Post subject:

Thats terrible.

shameless11 · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:17 am Post subject:

nothing's needs to be conducted verbatim, but i think it's a tad better than making yourself look like a desperate creeper and pushing her an email address.
you have to gage her reaction. if she isn't biting, let it go. not every girl is worth the trouble.

Mr Fahrenheit · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:23 am Post subject:

Well look at it this way...

If you gauge and you're wrong-No number
If you gauge and you're right-Number
You ask outright not looking like some freak who prerehearsed everything-You get the same result you were going to get with 'gauging' without filling up valuable time with stupid crap

I just cant get on board with some script involving pen drops and dhv lies. Its a common situation that you see a girl in a situation where time is limited, in that case you be direct and hope that she is open minded, and since you ant always have optimum situation then you have to change.

shameless11 · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:30 am Post subject:

The way I approached my reply for the post was off the top of my head. I would assume the OP would do the same. It was just an example.

The pen thing was simply to put him in a position to open the conversation. He said that he rarely has any time to speak with her, and a short exchange with a bit of personal interaction, as opposed to sheer flattery (which many girls will blow off), will go a long way.

I'm not suggesting that the OP rehearse lines or anything, but rather I am presenting a possibly opening scenario where he has a better chance to actually talk to her, build attraction, kino a bit, and close. He doesn't know when or if he'll see her again, so why not go for the instant satisfaction.

Like I said, if she doesn't feel him at all, he can turn and march his ass down the street, I'm sure his school has plenty of fish.

Mr Fahrenheit · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:34 am Post subject:

But the factor was he didnt have time to do that, sometime you dont have the conditions nesecary for creating all of this stuff instantly. In this situation all you need is a foot in the door. You cant apply classic PU theory to everything, like i said you have to be versatile.

shameless11 · Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:41 am Post subject:

I can agree with you on this. But if he really wants to meet the girl I think he can sacrifice 5 minutes of his time to show up early. She doesn't have to know he did it, he just has to do it.
An alternative approach would be to just bump into her and start with a neg. Something like "Jeez you must have really wanted to touch me to walk out of your way like that." I'd like to believe that she's hot enough that her ego can use a lump or two. If not, go for the passive approach, smooze her up and bit and hope that she bites.
Personally, all I would say is hi, how are you this morning, and walk with her. I'm not big on canned material or over the top crap, it is tried and true like the second poster said.

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