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Mr. Amador | PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 2:10 am | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Zealot | | Joined: Fri Feb 15, 2008 1:14 am Posts: 477 | Perception is more important than you might think.
Well, I use the word perception with this meaning; to recive the useful signals of a social interaction, aka: emotional intelligence.
When you know what a girl wants....deep inside from the sings she gives to you, thats to be emotionally smart.
I remember girls that used to talk, and talk, and talk to me....to the point that the whole conversation became sort of a blur. Now I know that these girls wanted aproval, compliance, and attention.
Now if a girl starts talking her ass off, I deliver what she wants...attention, recognition...etc. I usually IOI her at this point.
Most guys out there dont have this perception, they cant read a girls deep intentions and needs.
Girls work on two different levels....what they think and say (social programation, ASD) and what they want (what they end up doing).
My social communications teacher used to tell me:
"Every human communication has an intention, and an objective"
Do you know what are the deep desires of women?...generally what they lack.
Think about it.
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