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mii
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 Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 7:32 pm Post subject: How do you approach a large set |
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| Im talking mabey like 6 or 7 and only like 1 or 2 girls how do you do this? |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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| IMMEDIATELY make friends with the guys. Get them to take you in. If the AMOG tries to neg you, have a stronger frame than his. Neg him back. Show that you are the leader. In other words, come in with DHV stories. DON'T come in and just stand and listen to whoever is talking. YOU take the lead. |
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soullarpower
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I never approach a set larger then three, and i hate when there is a guy in a set( they make me more nervous then the women). does this make me a
AFC?
P.S. I'm not gay just guys scare me bro, they can turn a set against you over jealousy, and you can't flirt with a dude like you could with a cock blocking girlfriend( friend of the target).
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sandman808
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| Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 2:28 pm Post subject: |
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| L.A. Tripp wrote: | | IMMEDIATELY make friends with the guys. Get them to take you in. If the AMOG tries to neg you, have a stronger frame than his. Neg him back. Show that you are the leader. In other words, come in with DHV stories. DON'T come in and just stand and listen to whoever is talking. YOU take the lead. |
This is good. Remember: just treat the guys as UGs / obstacles and overcome them first or else you're OUT. |
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mii
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| How do you go from befriending the guys to getting to the girl. Most of the guys are afcs and are badly trying to get there attention. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 12:23 am Post subject: |
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Tell short stories to the whole group to get all of their attention.
At the same time you are paying attention to what the guys and girls are doing and saying so you can praise the non-target females for things, neg the target for things, and DLV the guys IF needed. |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 12:51 am Post subject: |
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| soullarpower wrote: | I never approach a set larger then three, and i hate when there is a guy in a set( they make me more nervous then the women). does this make me a
AFC?
P.S. I'm not gay just guys scare me bro, they can turn a set against you over jealousy, and you can't flirt with a dude like you could with a cock blocking girlfriend( friend of the target).
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The guys can be made better allies than women can. You have the advantage of being able to relate to them and make them think you're just a cool guy and people like to align themselves with the coolest people they can latch on to. |
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FreeByAnyMeans
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| Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 2:41 am Post subject: |
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Sets with guys in them are actually the easiest. You can open by approaching a guy and saying something like "Cool shirt, where did you get that?" That way you're opening the set without telegraphing interest to the target, and as you befriend the guys it's more natural to do some DHV storytelling routines disguised as just talking about guy stuff or whatever.
"If you lead the men, the women will follow." |
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