how do i take it to the next level w/ a girl if she's workin

sans_logique

how would you guys go about approaching a girl at her job? specifically, she works at a coffee shop and i see her once a week. i try to talk to her and semi flirt w/ her, but don't want to seem rude/weird/desperate and just ask her for her number.

I'm also having a hard time reading her, since she might just be nice since it's her job.

What are some good questions to test the water? should i be direct and just ask her for her digits?

popsticle · Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:59 pm Post subject:

this could be tricky as you probably dont have a lot of time to talk to her. try finding IOI's such as her smiling when you smile at her or if you have the balls ask her to make you a coffee with extra love. if she responds positively to these things you could try asking her to have a drink with you or something like that. being direct and asking for her number will most likely seem a bit desperate so i would avoid doing that.

sans_logique · Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:52 pm Post subject:

Ok cool, like i said i see her every week. I'm guessing she's at least somewhat interested, so i will flirt with her a little more next time for a reaction. 'extra love' i like that. I'm sure i'll paraphrase it, but it's probably a good way to gauge a reaction.

Thanks! anything else i should keep in mind?

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