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someoneoutthere
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 Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 2:00 pm Post subject: How do I respond to these choices??!? |
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After being bogged down by studying and being unable to talk day 2 stuff w/ me for a few days, the girl sends me an email with the following choices asking me if I:
1. Miss her?
2. Disappointed at her not having time to talk
3. Anxious that check phone to see if she called
4. Don't care
Obviously I'm not gonna respond in an email, but i dunno how to respond to that in person either. lots of IOIs in the rest of the email, but still, i wonder what a correct response would be?
I was thinking about saying how I was busy myself and filled it with ___ activities so her choices are not relevant. But this isn't really a great answer in my mind.
What do you guys, the gurus think? Thanks for reading! |
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saqchek
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| Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 2:10 pm Post subject: Re: How do I respond to these choices??!? |
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| someoneoutthere wrote: | I was thinking about saying how I was busy myself and filled it with ___ activities so her choices are not relevant. But this isn't really a great answer in my mind.
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This would be the correct thing to do my friend. Just laugh and tell her you thought it was cute she missed you. I would explain that it's ok and you were busy yourself. (pretty much like you said) Definitely don't answer one of those questions..lol |
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Starbuck
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| Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 2:22 pm Post subject: |
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If you want her..
Yes
Yes
Yes
No
"When can we get up again?"
If you don't want her..
No
No
No
Yes
"I study all the time" |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Starbuck wrote: | If you want her..
Yes
Yes
Yes
No
"When can we get up again?"
If you don't want her..
No
No
No
Yes
"I study all the time" |
LMAO! I love it.
Yes, she's obviously into you. You could take the route of not answering any, at least at first, but I don't personally think the first two would hurt you if you did answer them. I mean, you could just take Starbuck's route direct and make it work too. But, this is how I would do it. I would answer the first yes, the second with "sure". Don't even acknowledge the third and fourth. Then tell her to meet you somewhere at some time. And yes, I would tell her you've been busy too. Then, when she agrees to meet, go for it. |
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