Impact
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 Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 6:54 am Post subject: |
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as your walking right past her, in front of her turn to her and say, " OMG hey, quick question, the shoes, wherd you get them from, because i swear i was down at Melrose buying Lisa (thats my manager, nightclub owner, photographer, bass player, fashion designer anything to dhv) a pair exactly like those, but they ran out of her size.. and i swear man if u have the last one I'm defiantly moving out, yup thats it, i dont love you anymore!"
Its not a easy set to open, that’s one of the Day Game's harder sets. If you want to use something like that make sure you spend hours rehearsing it. Otherwise you’ll fall apart. Get chatty beforehand as well, talk to about 10 girls before u open a moving set.
Make sure when your spitting those routines its genuine as well, don't just make up crap. Most girls see through this right away.
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Romeo7
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Im a mall MACHINE.
Look, there is three types of sets (sets who are approachable)
1. Girl shopping (sometimes not even shopping) alone.
2. Group of girls (2, 3 or more)
3. Girl(s) with her mom (YES THIS CAN BE DONE)
The first two sets are obviously approachable, sometimes they are not even buying anything, they are just walking around, talking on the phone, etc; and of course they are dressed to kill; dude, they want to be approached, (IF THEY DIDN'T, THEY COULD HAVE THE SAME CONVERSATION THEY ARE HAVING IN THEIR KITCHEN, OR THEIR ROOM) so as far as getting worried about them NOT wanting you to approach them, forget it, they do.
Ok, now, with that out of the way, if you will approach, you still need to stand out from the rest of guys, you need your game put together.
A mall is just like a club, with no music and less players. Simple as that
Solution: Stand out
1. Clothing is very important, it doesn't matter how many openers, routines you have in your head, First Impressions count. If you need help on how to dress, ask around here, or visit a webpage, or even ask a girl friend of yours with good taste.
2. BODY LANGUAGE
With no doubt, this is the single most important part.
If you're alone, smile, shoulders back, stomach in, back straight, you're the party. (A good thing to do, is to always get hyper before going out, or warm up. For example: Listen to your favorite music or comedian)
If you're with friends, your crew is the party. Make sure you're having a good time, remember you're the group having fun, ejoying yourselves, NOT the one looking for chicks to hook up with, don't make it obvious, don't stand in the corner looking for every girl to pass by, that's not cool. Instead, have fun, when girls see you having fun, they will check you out, and there is your opener. (Follow)
3. OPENER
To my belief, the single best opener is your body languaje, if you get her to notice how confident you're, how much fun you're having, she (and her friends) will want to join you. They will be checkin you out, a simple eye contact for longer than 1 second is enough, it's the invitation "Just say whatever, but come talk to me". Once you have her attention, really the opener is not of that much importance. Just walk up to them "Hey..." and follow up with a small conversation.
QUICK TIP: I have used one of David DeAngelo's number-closing technique and it works wonderfuls if done right.
Simple walk up to a girl you saw passed by, and checked you out (since your body language stands out, she will) and tell her. "I was gonna come meet you, but I got busy... (Pause) And I'm in a major rush right now, I really got to go, but you're cute as hell... (Pause), I got to get to know you better" blah blah "You have an email? Great, write it down here (as she is writing it, tell her "write down your number too") If she doesn't have an email, bust on her "Well do you even have electricity?", "Ok, i'll take your number"
(IT WORKS WITH BOTH, GIRL ALONE OR IN A GROUP OF FRIENDS)
BONUS!!!!
I recently tried this, and it worked,
SCENARIO: HB shopping with her mom!
HB must be relatively close to her mom at the moment, so when you engage her mom in a conversation, she notices you
ME:Excuse me Miss
MOM: Yeah?
ME: I just wanted to compliment you on how you and your daughter share moment like this, you don't see that much now adays.
MOM: Thank you (she even makes lil talks sometimes)
ME: She's your daugther right?
MOM: Yeah (sometimes she even calls her to introduce me and stuff, if she doesn't introduce me, i say...)
ME: Well, you have a very cute daugther (make sure HB listening to what you say) You mind if I talk to her for a minute?
Usually they say "Sure, go ahead" or they think her daugther is old enough to decide, the whole point of talking to the mom is disarming the obstacle, the fear of HB of being seen by her mom, once you talk to the mom, she literary has her permission.
Then you get her number
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Ok, if the situation allows to, stay talkin to them for longer (before you get the number)
Then you move on to banter, vibe, roleplay, etc.
Let me know if you would like more help
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and little conversation relaxes people (she doesn't know you are gaming her, of course).