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El'>Presidente<&quo
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 Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 10:52 am Post subject: How do I create attraction in a conversation? |
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| Like the title goes, I'd sure love some tips on how to create attractive in HBs during a normal conversation. I started one today and managed to obtain her # though I don't think I sparked an interest in her. Any help would be nice. |
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Dodger
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 9:55 pm Post subject: |
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neg and DHV and make her laugh.
Tease her a little and act amused when she tries to tease you or something of the sort. And be funny.
here are some example from a convo I had with this girl today.
me: what college do u want to go to?
her: i dont know, which ever one accepts me.
me: good to see u have such high ambitions (neg and funny)
me: what did u get on ur SAT?
her: 1500 something (she didn't want to tell me at first but I worked it out of her.)
me: thats not that bad (very subtle neg)
her: what did u get?
me: 1890 (DHV)
keep eye contact when you're speaking, and break it when she speaks. Don't appear too eager (show some disinterest).
and that should be enough for her to give you IOIs and you know shes attracted or at least intrigued. |
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Bruce
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| Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 1:40 am Post subject: |
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| Nice breadown! |
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El'>Presidente<&quo
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| Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 8:24 am Post subject: |
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Ok, so what exactly is a DHV? I didn't really get that one. Is it the sort of comment about yourself that increases your value and make you sound braggy and arrogant while at the same time creating attraction for you?
Yeah, anyways I got this cute girl right in the next class, I'm still in High School =P, we've met but over the months we didn't really have much to talk about... She's obviously not interested in me, yet, cause I haven't talked to her yet. The question is, how do I go about creating attraction in convs with her in this situation? say... I need help doing funny bits in conv, sometimes when I fail to make the girls laugh I get discouraged and go into silence mode, after that someone comes in and butt in on the conv, usually a guy. it sucks... |
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