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cranberry sauce
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 Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 3:04 am Post subject: how can one become more decisive? |
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| Chicks dig guys who are decisive. Often, I feel I am lacking in that field. Anyone have some tips on how to become more decisive, throw em down. |
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Brainz
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| Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 3:17 am Post subject: |
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| Get to know yourself better; know what you want in life, and take it! |
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cranberry sauce
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| Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 5:01 am Post subject: |
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| how true |
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tsar
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| Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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| You can try using the affirmation, "i am an aggressive, dominant alpha male who always gets what he wants". Just focus on having the attitude i want i get. Gl |
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cranberry sauce
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I'm not personally a big fan of that method. I've tried using that, but it's almost like a defense mechanism. You're telling yourself something about yourself, that you're not. And it fucks with your perspective on shit. Certain context calls for certain actions and measures. If you don't have a clear perspective, you'll fuck up. When you keep telling yourself something, you lose apart of your personality which in turn causes suffering/anxiety I think.
You have to lose your self.. that's the key. |
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tsar
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right on cranberry, you have to lose yourself to find yourself, affirmations done monotone by themselves are not as effective as combining it with visualization and feeling. Takes practice but is very effective, worked for me but due to difference in experiences you have a different point of view, and that is perfectly fine. Try different things as much as you can and see what works, judge with your own two eyes not someone else's
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Yttrium
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I had the same problem. The thing i did to get over it was just do the first decision that came to you head.
"The best thing to do is make the right decision, the next best thing to do is make the wrong decision, the worst thing to do is make no decision at all." I can't remember who said that. |
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