chazman0426
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 Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 4:29 am Post subject: Hey guys im still new at PUA, any tips on this one? |
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I've known this HB for 5 or 6 years since middle school but we haven't seen each other for like 2 years because I moved away but we've kept in touch off and on. We know each other pretty well but haven't talked or caught up in a while. She told me she had a crush on me in middle school like a year ago online and I told her the same so she knows how I feel.
We agreed to meet tomorrow since i'm in town. At first she said we'll watch movies but now she's saying she may take me out with friends. So any big tips. I'm kinda nervous but I know I can be confident, it just takes getting in that mood. I was wondering if there are any good C&F routines I should run in this paticular situation, anything for girls you've known for a while sorta but haven't spoken to or seen in a long time? I know A1 and A2 are out but I guess I should just start with A3 and try and move through C1 and C2? Any tips? |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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You have been away from each other for a few years and you obviously have previous comfort built if she's hanging out with you again. As for where to start when you see each other, it's A2. I have this same problem with meeting people online. Mostly online I can only build comfort, so when I meet in person I have to go back to A2 and work my way back.
So, if she's with friends the ignore her for a little bit, and through a few "light" negs her way. Nothing over the top just be the prize! Don't spend very long doing that just enough. Then move right to A3 when she's talking about all the stuff she's into now. BAIT-HOOK-RELEASE with her statements, and go back into Comfort with here you were. Absolutely, do not forget to kino escalate from the moment you reunite be the touchy guy.
Outside of that you know at one time she had feelings for you. She knows at one time you felt the same way. She could be involved with someone now but your best chance is just to follow the process and see what happens. Spark those old flames!!!
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