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boyboy2000
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 Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 3:08 am Post subject: hey guys how would you handle a student in your class? |
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I recently managed to get the email address of one female on the guise of forming a study group. Yet I think she has an idea that I am interested in her because I have striked convo with her in the past and we make eye contact and smile blah blah blah. I am still AFC so forgive me, but I don't know what to do next! 
ANother girl in my other class sits in the back with this afc chump and another chick, i totally missed an opportunity to speak to her and regret it, how should I have sparked a convo with her? I guess I am kind of worried of my intentions being obvious to those around me. ANyway to tackle this?
your help will be much appreciated! |
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smoothie
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dont worry about mistakes you made in the past to much or they will linger over your head and slow you down. what you need to think about is the right now. and right now you have this girls email address. invite her out for a drink but when you do it make sure that she knows she is tagging along with you. you are the prize.
Somthing along the lines of "Im going out for a coffee at XX on friday around XX time after class. Would you like to join me?"
if your worried about what to say then think up some openers and subject of interest before hand. write them down. remember them. this way if the convo gos quite you can always bring one of these things up to get it on track again. its pretty simple stuff dude. just remember to relax. have fun. and remember that if it doesnt work out there are plenty more girls. try to let her do most the talking and stay mysterious. do not and i mean DO NOT ATTACH EXCESS MEANING TO THIS GIRL! make her come for you not vice versa. |
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Desire
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hey man, adding on to what smoothie said. you got her email, so email her back and find out whens a good time to call.(you can even add in a neg and say "what time do i pose the best chance of not having to listen to your voicemail") then call her up and just as smoothie said ask her to join you for coffie, drink whatever. you pick the place, the time, everything. heres a neg i like to use when im inviting a girl on a coffie date. it goes somethin like this after you've suggested she tag along. "ya coffie is always a safe bet because then if your creepy or uninteresting i can give u an easy excuse why id have to get back home. like flossing my cat" this works even better if she asks y it must be coffie or wutever u decide.
good luck and tear it up out there, |
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