Help, self neg

Danny the Kid · Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 11:10 am Post subject: Help, self neg

hi guys, What is the best answer when a girl puts herself down e.g "I wish I was that skinny" or "i no im not the prettiest" i've had this alot and don't really no how to deal with these, i'm not saying that these girls are fat or ugly they are around 7.5/8's, but i see this as a sign or being insecure and don't no how to deal with it. I was sarging a 9 on saturday and she had an amazing body and she knew it, and she told me she hadn't bin to the gym in ages and she had love handles and was getting fat and she clearly wasn't i think she was showing off infront of the other girls so i negged her but will it be different with 7's and 8's? ne advice?

xfman · Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 7:52 pm Post subject:

Depends, some girls just liek some afc to bust their ego up by saying something like this:

HB7 : I Dont like the color of my eyes (having beautiful green eyes )

AFC: Oh, No way , you have the most .....

- But sometimes the are unsecure ....

My adivce is to avoid the topic with 7 - 8

HB7 : I Dont like the color of my eyes

XFMAN: Did you know that most of the girls .... change topic

But with 9 - 10 give negs:

HB10 : I Dont like the color of my eyes

XFMAN: Me neither , you should buy some glasses Laughing

Shaft · Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 10:44 pm Post subject:

Ya I would bust her balls .. but thats just me.... Sometimes its a swing and a miss. I remember this one girl was saying she was butch, because she boxed or kickboxed. One of those so I was like ya you must be pretty butch. She immediatly switched her mood and started to verbally attack me and then told me I better just walk away. I just laughed and called her a insecure bitch who better get her head checked and then walked away.

xfman · Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 12:20 am Post subject:

You have to calibrate your negs according to the girl

Monkey · Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 12:24 am Post subject:

Her: I hate the color of my eyes.
Monkey: Your hair is worse. What's wrong with the color of your eyes?

Her: I'm a kick-boxer. I'm pretty butch, doncha know.
Monkey: Well at least ONE of us is. You can be my new bodyguard!

Her: I don't think I'm very pretty.
Monkey: I think you're pretty. But pretty is common. Everyone is pretty nowadays. A great personality and outlook on life are way more important to me.

Her: I wish I was that skinny.
Monkey: We're broken up, then. I prefer a woman who can appreciate an ice cream cone every once in a while.

Danny the Kid · Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 9:54 am Post subject:

Thnx monkey shaft and xfman, thats cool advice i will defo use cheers guys.

scott076q · Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 7:19 pm Post subject:

I would absolutley not play to her insecurities.

a) she will want the lights out during sex,

b) will be shy in the bedroom

c) will probably end up threatening to kill herself when she realises you just wanted a quick fumble between the sheets.

adas1023 · Posted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 4:14 pm Post subject:

Merch · Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 4:55 pm Post subject:

when she says something like " I hate my eyes!" say, well beauty is common, but what is really rare is as great outlook on life, so tell me, what have you got going for you apart from your looks?

This does two things- it makes you look as if you responded on the same topic (when in actual fact you changed it), it confuses her, as she still doesn't quite get your opinion on her eyes, flabby love handles etc, and it gives you a damn good way to look for IOIs and BHRR (bait,hook,reel,release.) And yes I realise that is more than two things.

So, to BHRR, you ask her this question (the bait), and if she starts listting a few qualities (she hooks), it is an IOI, you should then pull her in by saying "awsome" or another positive comment about her qualities (reel), but then at the last minute, when she starts to think you an AFC (usually 2-3 seconds) then release her with a disqualifier such as "its a shame i only date Tall girls" (the release) if she says AWWW Sad

then you can close instantly by saying "well give me your number and i MIGHT make an exception." If she doesn't say awww then just carry on threading.

May not be original, but it works.

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