ThinkRevolution
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 Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 3:36 pm Post subject: Help + I broke all the rules (cliffs) |
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So, stumbled upon this site about a week ago, been lurking and trying to figure out all those acronyms you guys use. I have my own really interesting story that i'd like input on, plus that I think you guys will cool hopefully.
HB8.5 , friends for about two years now. Shes been dating + lives with her boyfriend for about three years. Her friends all pretty much agree that he is a jerk, (they actually have seen him hit her) although she denies at this point it happens any longer.
I hooked up with her about a year ago, total AFC style - kissed her when I probably shouldn't have and made things real awkard for awhile even though she was throwing IOI's. Regardless, we recovered and turned out to be great friends.
Now, she has cheated on her boyfriend with this kid i knew for awhile now, recently things between her and this kid went sour, partially I think because of me. I became disinterested in her, and I think this really sparked her interest - talked to her about other girls i was doing etc - just "close friend" style.
Well, it culminated in a night out for her birthday in which we ended up making out the whole time. This was a few months back, and this is accelerated into us having sex (4-5x?) as well as having dinner together, her sneaking over to my house to hang out under the pre-text of her doing other things etc.
So, somehow i broke the friend zone? I don't know how considering i was in it for such a long time. Regardless, it's a kind of where do I go from here. I'd consider myself a decent PUA, i have great luck with girls always have, always have a few on tap and never really end up caring about them. However, i'll admit I really dig this girl and could potentially see myself with her. There is of course the obvious red flag of the way shes dicking over her current bf (Despite his reputation and her unhappiness with the relationship) and she could do the same to me (GREAT liar) but the thing is, she really has no intention of leaving her bf. She says things like "My situation will change, but i don't know when" and "I have to be able to leave him when i'm ready"
So, got myself in a pretty nasty situation, but it's interesting as hell, shes gorgeous and straight forward and her honesty is refreshing (she will call my bullshit and tell me things straight - which is an interesting opposition to how much of a liar she is to her bf)
So yea, what now? Past the point of the boyfriend destroyer, and I don't think i'd want to jump into a relationship with her now as the same shit would probably repeat itself. Plus, i'm kind of enjoying being young and doing lots of women? :O
Cliffs:
Friend with girl 2 years
She is in a relationship / lives with bf 3 years
Boyfriend is directionaless / abusive
Hooked up a year ago, awkward
Ended up hooking up agian after playing it cool
Led to sex, multiple times
(Friend zone is a MYTH!)
Like her alot more then other girls I messed with
Wont leave her bf
Dont know if i want a relationship anyway, but maybe
Don't know if I can trust her (history repeats itself) |
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Memento
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 3:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | Oneitis : Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion. "Go fuck ten other women" is the most commonly prescribed treatment for this "disease" (hence the "itis"), as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are.
In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with that girl, because it's just an illusion. And when you get rejected, don't be depressed. Because there's really not much to worry about. |
Thank you urban dictionary 
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ThinkRevolution
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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haha nah, its not like that.
Like I said, i've had my fair share of women this past summer, this one is just different. People ARE after all allowed to like someone as opposed to just using them arent they?  |
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