Half a year friendship

MindFucker · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 6:18 pm Post subject: Half a year friendship

And so, when i started pick-upping it was a great time, cause i was young 14 years old or 15, now i'll soon be 18, but that's not the point. The point is that, one time i saw that my classmate(girl ofcourse) was into me, i used it and we met a few times, after that, more and more, and now it is half a year we're in friendship. She was virgin, and i was too, but she didn't knew it until i said it (when we we're first time in the bed together). I've never told her that i love her, that i can't live without her and that she's the most beatiful girl on earth. Yes that's true, she's nice(to me), she gives me a great sex with a greater entusiasm, she plans weekends , but i just can't live with it, i need other girls. She knows that i'm able to chat with any other girl, and make her like me. There was a few times she cried in fact i've never told that i love her or i can't be without her, but i just can't say that cause i feel good alone, i feel good with her, i feel good with my friends, i feel good with other girls, so i don't know is this a good way to continue the relationship..?

Strive · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 6:54 pm Post subject:

You need to let this one go. You're way to young to be in a serious relationship like this girl wants to be in. If you stick with this chick she'll find a way to con you into getting married. In four years you will have two kids and no life. Get out fast and start living the life a young man should.

MindFucker · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 7:00 pm Post subject:

this girl doesn't change my life style, cause i just don't let her to do it, she knows that only one year is left until we'll finish school so i think this friendship will not continue more than that. I know that if there would be a chance to fuck a girl, i would do it, but there just are not, cause as i'm young, i live with my parents and i do not have where to do it. yes, thats the fact that i'm scared of that she'll glue to me too much, bu we talked about it and she understands that this will not be for a very long. em... please some advices or if somebody has experience in this, please write, i'm confused by now Rolling Eyes

C-DUB · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 7:54 pm Post subject:

She wants the commitment and you don't. Tell her that (in nicer ways).
Don't rush anything because you feel pressured by her.

MindFucker · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 8:00 pm Post subject:

no i'm not pressured by her, i'm just thinking that she's good for me, she wants that everything would be good between us, but i just don't care, i live as i lived before and i feel a strange feeling because of that she cares about our relationship very much, she feels love, but i just feel happyness and nothing else

Strive · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:15 pm Post subject:

I'm a little confused as to what you need help with. You say she does not pressure you and she makes you feel good when you're around her so what's the problem? Do you feel guilt for not having stronger feelings for her?

MindFucker · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:31 pm Post subject:

i think yes, i think i don't accept what she is giving to me, and i don't want to give her more. i'v never felt that feeling(except when i was 6 maybe and there was one girl, but that was a very past), and i don't know if i should search for another girl for which i would feel that. i'm messed up with the things, cause i see how she talks about our relationship, how she's into me, and i see how i'm cold as i was in the beginning Rolling Eyes

Strive · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:53 pm Post subject:

You like the attention she gives you but it sounds like you have no real fellings for her. Thats fine as long as you're honest with her about that fact. If she gets upset over it then thats her problem. Your not being immoral or anything, you seem like a good guy who just wants to make sure he's not doing anything wrong. Your not doing anything wrong so no worries.

MindFucker · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:26 pm Post subject:

mm.. that's fine. i was just confused about that she likes me and she's into me, she tries to do the best, and i am just a badass and care about myself. thanks Wink

HighCard · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 10:17 pm Post subject:

I know from personal experience that relationships like that one can mess with you in the long run. It depends on what you actually feel, but I got tied up to my high school sweetheart (who's easily a 9) for 6 years...I'm now 22 and she's out getting picked up by guys like me (now). Watch out with young ones...either they tie you down, or they hit bar-age and spread it around...or both...it's lose/lose if you don't play your cards right.

teletitty · Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 7:29 am Post subject:

too young. it will eventually fail. get board of eachother. stupid fights. AND it will be that much harder of a breakup b/c u guys lost your V-card to eachother. so ..DO NOT ENGAGE! ABORT! ABORT!

MikeIsSingle · Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 6:21 pm Post subject:

dont commit, i promise. i was in the same situation where i was with a similar girl for a year and a half. when i finally commit she was ready to move on, then i got stuck with one itis, and it sucks.

also you are too young, maybe one day, but like teletitty, "ABORT! ABORT!"

MikeIsSingle · Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 6:23 pm Post subject:

oh yeah, i also want to say that when you do commit it wont be as exciting for her, most of the attraction for you from her is because of the fact that she doesnt have you

Mamou Playboy · Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 2:55 am Post subject:

Hey MindFucker, like all the other guys have said previously.....

ABORT!!!

I was obsessed with a girl for 2 years, it leaves you with depression. Live a young awesome commitment free life that any 18-30 year old should live.

Work on your life and getting laid, not settling down.

^^^^^
I wish someone told me what I said, above when I was 18.

burtcocaine · Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 7:17 am Post subject:

i've had the same thing man. and i fucked it up bigger than shit.

if i could go back, what i would have done, was just tell her you're better off as friends, and she'll understand it. this is a scenario where you can be pretty honest, and she should understand. tell her you're too young to be tied down.

good luck man

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