I've never really approached girls... ever. Today I got tired of torturing myself over this one girl who I always catch looking at me anytime I'm at the store she works at, so I finally manned up. I don't care if it was bad, the point is - I'm glad I did what most people would try to do over facebook.

I always see this girl at a store I go to, and although I thought she was shy, I could always see her looking at me. You know when you kind of feel the "vibe" of a girl you like and you just sort of pick up on it? Granted, I was always looking at her too.

This has been going on for about a few months now when I'm in there every week. I'm 5'9, she's easily an inch taller than me, really, REALLY cute. Maybe not the cliche supermodel, but just gorgeous in her own way. I'm actually not that into relationships at all because I am pursuing other productive things, but for this girl I could make an exception.

So anyway, when I'm normally at her register, I don't say anything, she says the normal things "Your change is", and then I walk away. The thing is though, you can tell how tense she gets around me, playing with her hair, biting nails, ect.

However, tonight I felt this weird urge to just be like "Man, stop torturing yourself and figure this out!". I go up and ask her what school she goes to, she tells me she's in college and only about a year younger than me. I look at her and I go "You're... extremely pretty". And she starts laughing and I said "No really, not to sound weird, but I've been wanting to say that for a while". She was almost in shock and in a mix of "Omg he really saying this" and laughing... I guess that's what you call blushing. I then said, "So, are you single?". And she had this disappointed look like "I'm... I'm not". And I said "Damn...", as she was handing me my receipt I said "Are you sure you're not single?". And she couldn't stop laughing/blushing. As I walked away, I could see her covering her mouth and smiling as if to say "What the hell just happened".

So, although it may have been a bad approach, does it seem like the girl had any interest?

Not sure. Girls who work in customer service are used to being flirted with. But you obviously made her day. At least she shot you down upfront.

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I have a friend that works there, and she has told me that the girl actually has a girlfriend.

lol still amazing though.

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You did the opposite what I would have done! I'd probably negged her, or did a simple NLP routine on her:

You had to have demonstrated some jaw dropping skill that would separate you from AFC customers, so next time start showing more game that her boyfriend has, that's attractive...

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LOL, amazing as in- Amazingly terrible, or?


And, although I like this girl, there is a certain attraction to her. She's not a run of the mill sexy ass blonde with a nice ass, ect, ect. This girl just struck me as attractive. Not to sound like an ass, but I do not think she was a girl that had been approached a lot.

The thing is, you're right - I don't have really any game. But I feel like it's better than telling myself I have game, and never approaching vs. failing but gaining confidence.

This is going to sound TERRIBLE - which it is, but I'll post it anyway for your enjoyment.

I actually had to go back to the store today and I ran into her again with me friend. She gave me a huge smile and sort of acknowledged me through body language. So I went up to her and I said - Listen, I know I came on strong a little bit, but seriously you're like absolute perfection. There's no way I can get your number?

She turned her head, covered her mouth, started blushing and "giggling", and said in a regretful tone (Being serious here, not saying it to make me look less pathetic, that's impossible ) I'm.... I'm sorry I have a boyfriend.

I said "Alright, fine!".

I know it was a little scum baggy on my part, but good for her for being loyal.

Also, as terrible as this is, I'm still proud of my self for finally shutting up and trying to make something happen.

good job... even if she has a boyfriend at least you could make her smile... and you've done something great for yourself as well... notice how all that fear just leaves you once you take that first step? It's a great feeling...

Keep doing it man!

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