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Simpua
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 Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 1:27 pm Post subject: Had a date last night, need some advice |
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Last night I had a first date with a woman I had met. We met for dinner (yes, I realize this is a pretty average thing to do), but my goal was to develop for rapport and comfort with her while escalating things.
I have a good idea of what I will do with her on our next date. I plan on going to the beach and preparing a small snack of wine and cheese. That should set the mood for some sexual escalation.
The only regret I have from our date last night that I dislike is that I did not really build any kino. I built a ton of rapport and comfort, and I will make sure to build kino next time.
My question to you guys is how would you build kino if you are seated across the table from your date? |
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monday
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 3:50 pm Post subject: cancle the cheesy beach! |
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ok, you have done 0 keno and you are trying to seduce her,
you also mentioned rapport be carfull that could be the 'lets just be friends' rapport
what i say is go out to a supermarket , get your shop on. she is entering your world, not you entering hers. see,
+ in the supermarket i like to use anything to hit her with, ie french bread, cucumber. have a laugh at what she eats and what you eat choice of food.
If all goes well you could bring her home, with the 'I;ve got to get up early but i guess you can come in for about 5 minutes. then you'll really have to go'
sit her down in the kitchen while you cook, feed exotic bits and peaces as you do, trust me this will get rid of LMR later on.
all the best , mail me on how it goes.
if you need any help lines or routines feel free to mail me, |
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Simpua
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Haha... that reminds me of the time I attacked (playfully!) a woman I had previously flirted with at the mall with a roll of wrapping paper. |
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PUADIG
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 8:57 pm Post subject: Kino building |
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What i do in this situation is focus on the body language. Look to see if she's keeping eye contact, twirling her hair, feeling her neck, see if your getting an overall good vibe from it. You can try and grab her hand or something if you're feeling risque but i'd wait it out till your not facing each other opposite and build kino from there.
Sorry, i can't post my own thread so quick question... i K-closed with a girl on a date yesterday and now i'm wondering how long do i wait till i get in touch with her again, i don't want her thinking im not interested because i am. She's already facebook messaged me about the date but i haven't replied. Oh ant btw i'm in high school; i don't know if that changes anything. |
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rogue
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you've probably had the second date by now, but I just wanted to comment a bit on the dinner thing.. When I have a date with a girl and we're about to sit somewhere, like for coffee or whatever table, I ALWAYS playfully say that I won't sit opposite her because "its like we're having an interview and I feel more comfortable having you by my side" so I grab the chair which is next to mine (diagonally) and tell her to sit there, so I can do some kino soon afterwards.
I have found sitting directly opposite the girl EXTREMELY difficult to do ANY kino because it just feels weird, so the only kino I can do is by some random palm reading stuff (I usually only do the heart line since its more relevant, and its easy to learn in like 30mins).
I think your second date with the beach and the wine is 100% seduction. In theory, what you're trying to do is seduction without having any kino. I don't know if the girl will be feeling comfortable with that, because it shows your intentions 100% and if she's not in the same mode things will be difficult.
How about going out for a walk and THEN about 30mins afterwards randomly suggest going to the beach to hang out? I think its better as it shows spontaneity.. |
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tasawabao
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| Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 8:11 pm Post subject: HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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dude ... just wait it will happen...
if she´s going along on a 2nd date.. it will happen, she´s into you. No other way she would have blow you off instantly ...
Patience if the mother of all virtues...
No therés something I need help with and I need it Quick!!!
So here´s the story...
Last Friday I went to a wedding, and was having the time of my life. Suddenly I bumped into this girl that I haven´t seen for aprox. 2 years.. We started to talk, take a couple of drinks and hit the dance floor and then went back for more drinks and kept talking and so on...
I felt so much attaction to this girl... everytime we danced it was like as if I was dancing with one of my ex´s you get the picture huh... that close face to face, hands touching.. etc you get the picture... and I haven´t seen this girl in 2 YEARS!!!!
Well the deal was that we were having a blast.. at one moment during the night I went to the restroom and when I came back she was talking to his best friend (boy) and she kept looking at me... I kept my distance to show no desperation .... About 15 mins past and she went home.... We did say good bye but nothing special like the last hour we spent together.. she said his best friend was taking her home.. probable i didnt build enough comfort during that hour for her to leave with me...
The deal with this girl is that she´s leaving to england next sunday and she´ll be back in september..
What I want to do is to try to go out with here this week, before she leaves... She didn´t have pohone # at the time (at the wedding) cause she´s been abroad for two yrs now, so she´s not carrying any local phone numbers..
And can probably figure out the number she´s using though..
So my question to you guys its simple... I want to go out with this girl, get to build more comfort and take it from there.. The problem is that I have no clue what to do in this moment.
I only have her email and facebook...
regards to you my brothers... |
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Exile
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| Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:39 pm Post subject: Re: Had a date last night, need some advice |
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My question to you guys is how would you build kino if you are seated across the table from your date?[/quote]
You could try playing footsy! but do it in a funny way. Like touching her foot with yours then busting her balls about it acusing her of touching your foot and intialising kino. When I was at college a girl who I ended up seeing used to sit opposite me and on occassion I would put my foot on top of hers in a playful way in which she would take her foot from underneath mine and put her foot on top of mine and this would continue all through class. A bit childish I know but it seemed to work. |
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Osborne
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Well if you have her over for some snack, I will first of all light a coulpe of small candels and offer her some cold white wine. If you just want to do only a snack, the idea of the cheese dices is really good, but to make yourself look a little more elavorated/sophisticated, I would and some tomatoes cutted into slices around the dish with the cheese in the middle, a little of olive oil, and some salt and pepper to the whole thing...Very Mediterrenian isn't it?
Is a light refreshing snack but has some nicer looking than the cheese alone... the idea of then going to the walk at the beach is probably more interesting... First you showed some skill in the kitchen, then the romantic walk, and not being seated anymore you can always come up with some "let me try something.." for get closer or asking her to close her eyes... |
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