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Esperanto
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 Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 12:53 am Post subject: Great Opener for Sarging Alone |
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I've actually come up with an opener that hints at pre-selection while you are sarging alone. I've field tested this and number closed. Basically, turn to a group, and ask in a serious voice:
Esperanto: "Hey girls, I need your opinion on something. Its sort of bugging me."
Group: "Sure"
Esperanto: "So I'm dating this girl right now. We've only been dating for a couple of weeks. I mean, everything is going well accept I just got a text message from her asking if we were boyfriend/girlfriend (say it in sort of a condescening manner). I mean, we've been dating for two weeks! Thats actually why I'm here right now, I'm trying to clear my head while figuring out how to respond."
Group: "Oh my god. I mean, do you like her?"
Esperanto "Who knows, its been two weeks! (devious smile)"
Now start becoming a PUA. You've disarmed them by claiming you are dating someone (even though you are totally available). You've DHV'd and shown pre-selection. You've explained why you are alone. You've given them a topic of convo they love. What else is there? Within five minutes of using this routine the target had asked if I'd slept with her yet. Obviously, I answered with "Nosy girl! How do you guys bring out a girl like this!." Let me know what you think.
-Esperanto |
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Rye Lee
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| I think its a really good opener, the only problems that might arise is when she wonders why you are free and not with this other girl if you are seeing her more than once or twice a week, or if she asks your friends about this other girl and they say that there is no other girl. |
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Mr Fahrenheit
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 2:02 am Post subject: |
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| its rubbish |
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JasonD
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I'm just curious... Why do you think so? What flaws, if any, exist in this opener? |
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cfultz
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 2:12 am Post subject: Re: Great Opener for Sarging Alone |
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| Esperanto wrote: | I've actually come up with an opener that hints at pre-selection while you are sarging alone. I've field tested this and number closed. Basically, turn to a group, and ask in a serious voice:
Esperanto: "Hey girls, I need your opinion on something. Its sort of bugging me."
Group: "Sure"
Esperanto: "So I'm dating this girl right now. We've only been dating for a couple of weeks. I mean, everything is going well accept I just got a text message from her asking if we were boyfriend/girlfriend (say it in sort of a condescening manner). I mean, we've been dating for two weeks! Thats actually why I'm here right now, I'm trying to clear my head while figuring out how to respond."
Group: "Oh my god. I mean, do you like her?"
Esperanto "Who knows, its been two weeks! (devious smile)"
Now start becoming a PUA. You've disarmed them by claiming you are dating someone (even though you are totally available). You've DHV'd and shown pre-selection. You've explained why you are alone. You've given them a topic of convo they love. What else is there? Within five minutes of using this routine the target had asked if I'd slept with her yet. Obviously, I answered with "Nosy girl! How do you guys bring out a girl like this!." Let me know what you think.
-Esperanto |
dude, that is awesome! im going to try this! |
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Archangel White Rose
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 2:56 am Post subject: |
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| Nice one. Thumbs up! |
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Esperanto
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| Quote: | | I think its a really good opener, the only problems that might arise is when she wonders why you are free and not with this other girl if you are seeing her more than once or twice a week, or if she asks your friends about this other girl and they say that there is no other girl. |
First, within 5 minutes of the conversation you should steer the topic away from the opener and never mention it again. Furthermore, if the target DOES ask your friends, that means she has met your friends, which means you should have established an attraction by then and be well into the game (just a tip, keep friends out of it till you bed the lass). Also, you've supposedly dated this girl for 2 weeks. If you have good style, that means your friends aren't privy to everything you do in your social life and shouldn't know about her if the target inquires. You introduce girlfriends to your friends, not people you met two weeks ago.
By the way, I came up with this opener since it was actually partly true (though it had been like 3 or 4 weeks).
Curse, I would also know why its rubbish. It works for me. |
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BlackBull
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 2:50 pm Post subject: |
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No.
It's a very above-decent opener.Girls eat anything regarding relationship-related openers up.
But,best not to dwell on it for too long.Transition as soon as possible. |
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djtetsu
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How about adding:
She's pretty but she's like a sister to you. |
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Esperanto
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| Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 12:14 am Post subject: |
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I'm tinkering with the opener. I think I'm going to wait until she inevitably asks, "How long have you been dating?" Before I tell her, "Two weeks!" with a smile. The surprise will make the opener better.
-Esperanto |
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JUSTINcredible!
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| Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 12:58 am Post subject: |
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good opener...respeckt.
Anyone else field test this?
I'll give this one a shot this weekend.
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Midnight24
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| Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 4:06 am Post subject: |
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| I'm gonna try this one out this weekend and see how well it works. |
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The Wild One
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| Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 4:34 am Post subject: Not bad |
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| I like it man. You'll be able to pick out the adventurous ones in the group by their response to it. |
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[quote="BlackBull"
Transition as soon as possible. [/quote]
This is key! |
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| i think u shouldnt worry about her asking why there is no girl, u had just been going out two weeks u told her, so u can just tell her a few days later that u ended it with the other girl. after all what kinda girl thinks ur a couple after two weeks? |
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