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studdy
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 Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 9:39 pm Post subject: Got seduction down, what about dating?? |
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Hi everyone, I'm new to the boards and the game but I am quite familiar with it by now (maybe not all the terms yet) but I get it. And I'm generally quite good at the seduction game, my problem is when it comes to dating. I have great chemistry with most girls and always get IOIs, and I can ask a girl out and be sure that she'll say yes but then that's where I get weak. I've nver had a GF and my dating game is lacking.
I feel like I'm mainly limited financially and that if I had a car everything would be SO MUCH easier. I don't have a car or drive, I don't know the best spots, I'm not rich, I don't have a ton of friends to get around with and to up my social status, etc. etc. Is there a section of this website that would help out with overcoming these issues and getting past them?
Aside from that, specific experiences and pointers regarding bar etiquette, restaurant negs or techniques, etc. would be helpful as well..
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 11:03 pm Post subject: Re: Got seduction down, what about dating?? |
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| studdy wrote: |
I feel like I'm mainly limited financially and that if I had a car everything would be SO MUCH easier. I don't have a car or drive, I don't know the best spots, I'm not rich, I don't have a ton of friends to get around with and to up my social status, etc. etc. Is there a section of this website that would help out with overcoming these issues and getting past them?
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Welcome to the forum studdy.
None of the above even count unless you want a high maintenance g/f. If you are able to seduce girls with all of the above factors, you just have to keep the attraction and comfort going with the girl you want to have as a g/f. |
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studdy
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| That's for your discerning view, you are right, I am chasing a high maintenance girl...sad part is that I feel that she is worth it but I can't afford her..heh. I appreciate the advice. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 4:43 am Post subject: |
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| High maintenance or not, make her like the core you, not a facade. Eventually the outer you will reflect the core you, so she should accept the core you now. |
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Valence
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huh, what do you mean you can't afford her?
LA, why are you even encouraging him to even think in this manner?
Can't afford her?
Do not have a car? Take a bus, have her pick you up!
Best Spots? The best spot is when you both can be together and enjoy each others company.
Having a lot of friends has nothing to do with cash.
Why are you chasing anyone? If you had money, all anyone you chase would do is spend it........ |
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Ka
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Simply put you shouldnt be chasing or your doomed to fail, or worse yet get played.
You want "high maintence" because you find it a bit (maybe more then a bit) out of reach for you, but if you game right you can correct that issue. No girl is truely high maintence, thay trick themselves into beleiveing that material things relate to emotions.
Even as an AFC i dated a very rich girl, and im dirt poor. Ive just always been of the right mindset when it comes to money and life. I managed to do this by not letting her walk all over me when it came to money. My frame and attitude with her was, "Your daddy's money doesnt impress me."
If all you notice about the girl is her standards with money then you are like every other guy, you notice her physical apearence and her money...
Girls like this have a second set of defenses because they have a second desirible things that guys want. I am of course talking about girls who are already wealthy...a girl thats "high maintaince" but isnt really rich is just a joke. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 5:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Actually, Valence, I may have come across wrong, but I wasn't encouraging this from him. I was trying to drive the point across that what he thinks is holding him back in reality is not. It only matters because he thinks it matters. Sorry, I don't guess I got that point across very well. |
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