this just happened an hour ago....on the late bus (3am) home, quite drunk, pint of guinness still in hand, and an 8, blonde, sits down next to me...i was just staring out the window, to drunk to care, dissapointed by a boring night with no successes...somehow, because im drunk i cant remember, i got into a conversation with her, she was talking about college,doing some kind of social care or something, and i was taking full advantage of that, negging her beautifully by telling her i was impressed and that i met few people that actually wanted to contribute positively to society...and then ripping her apart, charmingly of course, by accusing her it was for selfish reasons, to look more caring than she actually is...or somethin...duno cant remember but i know i was funny and she was laughing at everything i said, even all the very unfunny things...body language turned from being pointed away to pointed in, legs against mine, amazin, duno what i did, but i thought, fuck, better ask for her number, so i say "here! obviously i need to kno more "caring" people, give me your number" and digs into her bag, takes out her phone (she didnt kno her cell by heart) and gives me her number, and her name. and i tell her im having a halloween party in my new house and she should definitely come. and then my brothers friend who i hadnt noticed on the bus gets up to get off and says hello to me, and i invite him to the halloween party, chat for a sec, and he gets off...and becuz he looks 25 but is only 18, i laugh when he gets off and say to the girl "ha, ya kno he's only 18!" and she's shocked, and her friend behind us starts laughing (seriously he looks 25, maybe even late 20s, its crazy) and then i see somethin in her eyes, a thought, and she turns to me and asks how old i am...and i said, kind of under my breath, realizing shes older, "21..." and her friend bursts out laughing, and then so does she, and im thinking, fuck, shouldv lied...and then the girl says she's 26...and i think its all over...and then she starts saying things like "but i still have the maturity of a 15 year old" and i started teasing her saying things like "well iv the maturity of someone your age, guess we should swap places" and telling her most of my friends are older then she is so she might as well assume im really 27...and when i mention my older friends her friend asks if theyre hot...and i duno if i shouldv said this but i said "not as hot as me"...anyway then i had to get off the bus becuz my stop was next, and she said, as i got up, "text me about the party, yeah?" and i said of course, and that was that....
so, she's 26. i'm 21. obviously a problem for her, as with most girls id say, but she was still into me....how should i approach this? should i wait 2 weeks until just before the party and then get in contact, or should i call/text this week and get a date in before the party? she was fuckin hot....anyway, advice please! and a critical take on the situation! dos and donts etc....all help much appreciated!