Got a Huge Problem from Something tiny

Mr. Amador

I think Im good at picking up girls.

I got a strong frame. When someone has a sticking point, I have the answer to it. But today everything Ive been achieving on confidence...was destroyed, by the tinyest gesture.

Im taking the stylelife challenge....the assingnments and missons; piece of cake.

I thougth that this was going to be easy...I have game already.

I took the no shower mission, and it went pretty well.

I was standing to get a coffee with some friends, but decided to go to this new coffee shop down the street.

When I was about to leave the line, this girl behind me, a 5 foot tall HB8, says:

"You are you on the line?"

Me: "No Im leaving"

We left the coffee shop.

And my friend says: "Dude, you have just blushed?"

And I did....It was so obvious!!!

I dont know why, but this AFC gesture, on me.......make my game fell apart.

I felt like crap.....cause I didnt noticed it. My insecurities, the ones that have been vanished from my mind, got back in. I started wondering if I got like that with all girls.

The worst part of it....was not gaming the girl. If I had at least tried.....

I mean....I acted so AFC.

Does it happen to you often? The AFC inside you kicks in every once in a while? How can I deal with it?

I really fell like sh1t.......

I heard once that blushing is a good thing, it makes people more attractive. But It mostly works on making girls look better.

Sardonyx · Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 12:33 am Post subject:

I gotta admit, when I first opened this post I thought you were talking about your penis. Laughing

Dude, you just need to get out of your own way. Don't let your buddy's comment get into your head. Even this post is AFC. How was your game before you knew about your blushing "problem?" Concentrate on that. If it was good then the blushing doesn't matter at ALL and if it could have been better (which it always can) then just continue going at it and building confidence until you stop your blushing.

keruli · Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 12:46 am Post subject:

First of all i believe a blush is a sign of health.
There are dozens of things that could make u blush, if dont focus hard enough to block em all out ,its likely that you will blush.

But dont let it get to u that much cmon ... Is your day ruined when u step intoo a pudlle, or when your pint gets knocked over at the bar ? No matter to what extend u try to control yourself (and your environment) . Some things can and will go wrong , its how u deal with em.

selfconfidence and "steady" game is also living with the punches , evryone makes mistakes sooner or later.

I seen this shortfilm where 2 man knock over a whine glass , the first one just stares at it while it falls in slowmotion ... it hits the floor and the mans intire world shatters. The second man reacts at lighningspeed and kicks the glass trough the air ... where it ends up stuck between a pair of boobies .

The point is when something hapnns ( u fumble and drop the ball ) there is 2 ways to go , 1. panick and watch it all fall apart, 2. react to it do something crazy , be impuslive , dont let 1 blow shatter u , fight back.

as to your personal case , its hard the first few times , but try to shrug stuff like that off ... the more u do it the easyer it gets

best of luck
keruli

Mr. Amador · Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 12:58 am Post subject:

Thank you guys....

I think I have some issue with this blushing thing...I mean I was doing great so far.

Maybe a past experience Ive blocked...it is not a big deal really, so it must be something I got subconsciously.

Im going to further work on my inner game.

Mr. Fantastic · Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 12:29 am Post subject:

Always work to improve inner game, no matter who you are or what your goals it'll help you out. I wouldn't worry about the blush at all, girls probably think it's cute. They just wanna squeeze those reeeeed cheeeeks! Embarassed

Mr. Amador · Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 1:10 am Post subject:

Hobbit · Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 1:21 am Post subject:

I would just make sure you have a line memorized in case a girl talks about it.

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