Got 2 numbers this past weekend... now what?

taiwaneezy

Pretty new to the forum. I have some... little game.

Friday girl, I met her at a New Years party. Pretty cute girl, doesn't drink alcohol, and shy. I met her through a friend. Talked to her for a good 2 hours, nonstop. Second time I see her, a few friends and I got a private box for a Laker's game. She came with her friend. The conversation at the game was decent. Later on, we went to a club, we danced fairly close. Some time passes, about 10 min, I tell her straight up, that I thought that she was cute, interesting, and would like to call her sometime. She then asked for my phone and saves her own number. I called her two days later... she didn't pick up, so I left her a casual message, asking if she'd be free later that day to maybe get a cup of coffee with me... she didn't call back.

So what should I do now?

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Saturday girl, I met her at a night club. She is also a friend of a friend, this girl is my same age (25) and happens to drink alcohol like me. We danced for most of the night. When I got tired from dancing she would follow me to where ever I sat to talk. After the club, I used my typical blunt approach, "I think you're cute and really interesting. If you wouldn't mind, I'd like to call you sometime." She replies with "I'm not really looking for a boyfriend right now." I told her that it was cool, that I wasn't really looking for any serious relationship at the moment, but more of someone to hang out with. She then gives me her number. We went to grab a bite to eat, along with some of my friends. The night pretty much ends there. Also, I haven't called her yet.

So my question is: When and how do I approach this?

Impact · Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 3:01 am Post subject:

You have no game.

good 2 hours, nonstop
You shouldnt spend this much time with someone so soon! initial should be no longer than about 20 min tops.

"I thought that she was cute, interesting, and would like to call her sometime"
You lowerd your value, you gave her too many IOI's now she thinks your needy. You didnt wait for her to give you IOI's first before you gave her some.

so she didn't pick up, so I left her a casual message, asking if she'd be free later that day to maybe get a cup of coffee with me
No! a cup of coffee? every other guy asks the same thing, there is no value in what you said. Why should she go to coffee with you? what reason did you give her besides your undying interest in her?

She didn't call back.
Game over! your out!

When and how do I approach this?
You don't! you leave now! its over!

-impact

Element · Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 4:18 am Post subject:

Impact.

I've been reading the last few posts you've made.
I was going to say, maybe you're being a little harsh.
But at the same time, you're light and funny about it.
So I have no quarrels with you, lol.

I really like how you break down their post.
It's a good way to give advice, I might steal it from you.
Razz

taiwaneezy · Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 5:03 am Post subject:

So... does everyone think that?

I am pretty noob at picking up chics I'll give you that.

So, uh, anyone else?[/img]

Enigma87 · Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:39 pm Post subject:

alrite dude, firstly im nowhere near as experienced as impact.
what he is saying is correct, also what element is saying is also true, you do make me laugh, (gotta luv the tough love)!
i would agree leave these 2 for now, freinds of freinds can run into each other months down the line, you can always rib her for not ringing you back and hopefully you will hav more experience and not make the same mistakes again, put it down to experience and learn from an move on!

chin up dude,
-peace-

MindFucker · Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 6:35 pm Post subject:

first of all PUA doesn't talk to one girl non-stop for 2 hours. Second PUA doesn't say "you are nice, and cute bla bla bla". 3. PUA don't send so much IOIs with noone received 4. PUA doesn't get numbers by saying these words, i think you need to talk for about 10-20minutes then say "it was nice to be here, i need to go, would you like to give me your number and to spend some time later?"

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