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troopertom
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 Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 12:57 am Post subject: !!!Girl putting me in LJBF zone!!! |
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theres this 8, blonde that i have one it is with..we used to be cool and kinda had a fling..but things happend and we stopped really hangning out,and when i tried to spark up our interest again..she pushed me into the ljbf zone- although i believe that there is hope cause she thinks i'm a nice guy
i want to get a relationship going with girl, any help would be great..btw im in highschool
so if theres anything that can alter her from the friend zone to having interest in you it would be great
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profkc1
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Same thing just happened to me, i've been crazy for this 7 blonde for 2 years, i'm a senior now and we just had a little fling, but she wanted just friends. I broke off from her and told her that i can't be just a friend if she's gonna pidgeonhole me into that situation. She texted me the next day and came up to me in school the other day for the most inane reasons.
Once they figure out how much they miss you once you're gone, they should come back to you. When you end things, make it known that they'll need to come to you to restart things.
I'm hoping this works for me, best of luck to you, it's a sucky situation. |
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Waffle
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| Develope an arrogant attitude. Like if someone says you look good just say "I know." Seems simple and pointless, but it will turn into confidence. Never deny being an asshole and be one with a smile. Just don't interupt the flow if things start to go well. I did and I kick myself for it often. |
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tweeby
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> i believe that there is hope cause she thinks i'm a nice guy
Nice guys don't win. |
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They Call Me Lucid
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| please read some material. being a nice guy is a bad sign for you. give up on her and go for the thousands of other girls in your life |
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Juice24
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| Yeah, I was a nice guy once, but it bought me pain from a One-its for almost 20yrs.. |
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GRKiller
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| Waffle wrote: | | Develope an arrogant attitude. Like if someone says you look good just say "I know." Seems simple and pointless, but it will turn into confidence. Never deny being an asshole and be one with a smile. Just don't interupt the flow if things start to go well. I did and I kick myself for it often. |
I think it would be a little too sudden for somebody who is percieved as a "nice guy". Dont get me wrong, you got the right overall idea, but it needs to happen slowly. If change so suddenly, she might question your true personality. |
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GRKiller
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| Juice24 wrote: | | Yeah, I was a nice guy once, but it bought me pain from a One-its for almost 20yrs.. |
Ouch! |
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Nate Heartagram(UBRNINJ@)
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| Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 12:50 am Post subject: Re: !!!Girl putting me in LJBF zone!!! |
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| troopertom wrote: | theres this 8, blonde that i have one it is with..we used to be cool and kinda had a fling..but things happend and we stopped really hangning out,and when i tried to spark up our interest again..she pushed me into the ljbf zone- although i believe that there is hope cause she thinks i'm a nice guy
i want to get a relationship going with girl, any help would be great..btw im in highschool
so if theres anything that can alter her from the friend zone to having interest in you it would be great
thanks |
i think (like most the other guys here) that if youre percieved as a nice guy then get out of there man, but if u relly want this girl for reasons then go ahead and do a routine that i dont have a name yet for but ive used this b4. walk up to her at any given time when u feel is necessary and just lightly grasp her arm and stare into her eyes and say "i miss you, i know in your eyes you miss me too". she might reply like "no" or if she doesnt reply then shes hooked, then either move in for a kiss or just ask her out there. works, trust me, not the traditional routine but gets the job done. |
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