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Coult45
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 Posted: Sun Nov 26, 2006 6:31 pm Post subject: Girl Keeps Leaving Me In Bar? |
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I've had this happen to me twice now. I meet a chick at the bar, we're both into eachother, then when we're dancing, she just ups and leaves without saying anything.
Now, I have enough sense to know that she's just screwing with me and wants to see if I'll follow her around like a puppy or something, but I don't have enough game to really know what to say to her.
I usually just keep dancing and then carry on with my night like she doesn't even matter and hit on other chicks.
Anyway, last night, after she pulls out once, I run into her again, bring her over to a couch, talk, makeout, number close, etc.
We dance some more and she takes off again for no reason. I just left the bar without saying goodbye to her, but plan to call her in 5 days.
What should I do when a chick pulls this shit? What should I say to this one when I call her this week? Give her shit or not even mention it? |
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Paetar
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This is weird.
Ok, you know that the mindset is "I am the prize", that means she has to earn you, not other way around. I say maybe talk to another girl, than "accidentaly" bump into the "leaver"
Also, maybe she is uncomfortable around you. Try do something about it, you will know what to do. Keep the proper mindset, that is important. |
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Gogo
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Coult45
if a chick leaves you when yur at the bar
just forget her and move on to someone else
like shes expendable this way you wont miss her
and it makes you look less needy
lol or when you see her again or she comes to talk
to you again pretent like you dont kno who she is
or you forgot who she was  |
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Monkey
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| If this only happens when you go out dancing, perhaps you should stop dancing with girls. I never dance. I look like a complete tool when dancing with other people (I'm a pop-locker; it doesn't exactly fit with the White Guy Shuffle-and-Bop that most girls are doing on the dance floor). Don't dance. When she goes out to dance, you move to another set (preferably a mixed set) and open them. If she comes back to you, you're in the good. If you re-open later, you're in the good. But if she keeps leaving every time you hit the dance floor, it's probably because you can't dance. |
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liljoe
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is she drunk?? or drinking?
anyways if a girl is doing that shit why would you waist your time with her anyways. you should be leaving them and they should be chasing you like a little puppy |
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jurupa
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| If a girl did that to me I move on to the next one. And if I run into her again, I will simple not talk to her unless she talked to me first. |
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Lucius
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People will tell u move on to the next girl bla bla bla.
1. When you meet a girl at the bar you must always move her to some other place, its called bouncing. maybe somewhere where is less crowded perhaps to other bar. But if u meet girl at the bar and you talk to her at the same place you met her that means she NEVER commit to your interaction, she was just there killing some time, perhaps resting from dancing getting another drink whatever.
In her weird brain she goes "oh he was nice, but its time to go back dancing or to my friends" or whatever the case might me.
If she moves with you ever 10 feet she is committing to you. Its very important step, and its also sign of IOI.
-Drifter |
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mozyFresh
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Dance Less, it sounds like there's a whole lot of dancing going on. Maybe she cant keep up. Or maybe she needs to go to toilet, or get a drink and is wondering where her friends have gone, who knows?
Dance for a while and then before she has the chance to take off, ask (or say) if wants to go to the bar and get a drink.
I have this happen to me and yes it's annoying, but never let it show that its a problem, thats the fastest way to fuck things up, just find her again and continue where you left off. |
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