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supaflya3 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:28 am Post subject: girl Ive dated for a month gift giving? |
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| what do you buy a girl for valentines day that youve only dated a month? I havent dated a girl on a gift giving day in 5 years, sophmore btw |
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Krylon PUA Forum Zealot
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:37 am Post subject: |
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| Standard Flowers and Chocolates. Can't go wrong with that. |
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Trivial Dedicated Member
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:40 am Post subject: |
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good question....
I want to hear some older PUAs opinion who have been through a lot of Valentine days. |
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Hobbit PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:57 am Post subject: |
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Something sentimental. Something that will stand out from all the flowers and chocolates she got. Something that is cheap.
Take an inside joke you have, and buy a gift that will remind her of it. Or something like that. Cheap and does the job better than other, standard gifts. |
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supaflya3 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:57 am Post subject: |
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| what type of flowers? how many? and chocalates? lol sry not to good at the giving gift thing |
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Trivial Dedicated Member
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 1:24 am Post subject: |
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what I've noticed is that its not the gift but more of the thought you put into it.
Example like my mom bf paid for people to come clean our house and changed our light bulbs. |
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supaflya3 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 1:45 am Post subject: |
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| I always call her a puppy and say she looks like a chihuaha (sp) lol I should buy her something like that then? |
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Jay Wa PUA Forum Addict
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 2:20 am Post subject: |
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I've celebrated Valentines Day with numerous times with a few different girls. . . And I have come to the conclusion that it's a shitty holiday! In fact, my last girlfriend and I began dating two days after Valentines Day. . .I simply refused to take her out on Feb. 14th.
But, if you MUST do it, then I would recommend you calling her over and cooking her dinner. For some reason, women eat that up. Its cheap, its romantic, and you don't have to fight the unruly crowd. . . |
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supaflya3 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 2:40 am Post subject: |
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| how bout an mma shirt since she knows I do that? |
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Cali Tripp Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:10 am Post subject: |
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Ok, from a girls perspective (and you can tell L.A. Tripp to listen up too. LOL!) . . . chocolates, candy, and flowers are dandy BUT that's so old school. Use your creative side and come up with something of your own. If you're REALLY creatively challenged, here's a site that might help spark that imagination . . . Don't get frightened by the name of the website. It's actually got some good ideas on it! One of my favorites is where a guy got a hotel room for the night and COMPLETELY filled it with balloons with notes inside and they had fun popping them together and letting her read each note.
Hope you find something that works for you and you have a Happy Valentine's Day!!!
~Cali Tripp |
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Hobbit PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:41 am Post subject: |
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| supaflya3 wrote: | | I always call her a puppy and say she looks like a chihuaha (sp) lol I should buy her something like that then? |
Dawg buy her a stuffed dog or something. With a note saying "This reminded me of you! Happy Valentines Day". |
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:47 am Post subject: |
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| If you want to be even more original go to build a bear and have them record your voice into the stuffed dog to say "I love you" everytime you press it. |
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| thugnificent wrote: | | If you want to be even more original go to build a bear and have them record your voice into the stuffed dog to say "I love you" everytime you press it. |
It's only been one month. I think that's a little try-hard for the situation. |
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Cali Tripp Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:56 am Post subject: |
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| thugnificent wrote: | | If you want to be even more original go to build a bear and have them record your voice into the stuffed dog to say "I love you" everytime you press it. |
Cute, but still not original. Just ask a person that works there and I'm sure they'll tell you that several people do it.
And, yes, saying I love you after a month of dating is REALLY pushing it and I wouldn't suggest that!
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:02 am Post subject: |
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| Krylon wrote: | | Standard Flowers and Chocolates. Can't go wrong with that. |
Actually, as Cali said that's just not the way to go. That's so completely AFC. Especially after just one month. We are supposed to be PUA's, which means different than the Average Frustrated Chump . . . GET IT?
Anyway, different is better. Make it YOU. And, not expensive either! After just a month? There's not MUCH she could have done to deserve expensive gifts, and definitely not an I love you yet. Even if it is on one of those candy hearts. |
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